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Originally Posted by highlans
That is wonderful but my advice is never go into there personal things you may one day find something you do not like how would you feel then?.
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I'm not worried about that. My son is very open and honest with us. He'll even ask me if I'll go through it with him, not that he can't do it himself, but we spend time together and I think he enjoys when we sit on the floor and go through his back-pack. If I was to find something I didn't think he should have in there, I would do with it what I do with all the other things. Put them in a pile and let him go through what he wants to keep and what to throw out.
Just another example of how close we are....when he was in 6th grade and they showed the films in Health class about their bodies and how they change, (even how the girls change), he brought the book home they gave him and wanted to discuss it. With me....not his dad. He even asked me "Mom, just what exactly are rubbers and what are they for?". So I sat down with him, showed him one and explained it all. I really don't think there is anything he wouldn't discuss with me and if someday there is...that's okay...we all need our privacy!