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Mandy · 03-12-2009, 02:04 PM

He needs to stop trying to please hes mom, he is not dating hes mom, no matter what he does or tries, she will be there to criticise.
If she was all that perfect, and such a divine christian, she wouldnt judge or hate others. Shame on her!
She is not treating her son so nicely if she is judging who ever he goes out with.
If your words bring him to tears, he will have a lot to learn, and thats ok, as long as he is willing to learn on how to improve the relationship with you, and how to stand up to hes mother. Sounds like he is affraid of disappointing her, and she is not allowing him to experience adult life.
Lindsey, stand your ground, and tell him that no matter what hes mom says, you will never ever allow her, or give her a chance to belittle you in any away, at least he will be prepared, and know how you feel and think about her issues.

03-12-2009, 02:04 PM	#21
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	He needs to stop trying to please hes mom, he is not dating hes mom, no matter what he does or tries, she will be there to criticise. If she was all that perfect, and such a divine christian, she wouldnt judge or hate others. Shame on her! She is not treating her son so nicely if she is judging who ever he goes out with. If your words bring him to tears, he will have a lot to learn, and thats ok, as long as he is willing to learn on how to improve the relationship with you, and how to stand up to hes mother. Sounds like he is affraid of disappointing her, and she is not allowing him to experience adult life. Lindsey, stand your ground, and tell him that no matter what hes mom says, you will never ever allow her, or give her a chance to belittle you in any away, at least he will be prepared, and know how you feel and think about her issues. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!