[Janet]

Wow Mandy, I just don't know. I think I would probably have my son speak with her about your feelings. If her behavior doesn't improve, then I would have a talk with her about what you expect in your home.

Thankfully, I've not had to deal with that. As you know, my son is 18 and had a girlfriend that I thought was a scank. I did not want him liking her or being near her, but I let him invite her here for pizza one time. Shortly after, her true colors came out and I made sure my son saw them. He hasn't had a girlfriend other than her all through school and that relationship only lasted a couple months.

I know there are others here with more experience than myself. Hopefully they will be able to offer some good advice. I do feel your pain girlfriend.