[QUOTE=Ponyup]Definitely the hardest, but we didn't live together before getting married. In fact until we were married we were long distance & only saw each other on the weekends. We are both loners so living with someone was a system shock for both of us. At about 18 months we hit our stride & it's been pretty good sense.
My best advise is always take your spouses side when it is them against an outside person or thing. The two of you are a team & need to be a united front.[/QUOTE]
Oh, I DEFINATELY agree with this one. Hubby and I always talk about this, about how we are a team. Sometimes when we are in a silly mood, we'll say to each other, "We make a pretty good team!"
