Thank you so much!
I did talk to my friend this afternoon. I asked her where she wanted the bachelorette party and she said "whatever works for you guys!" so then I asked if she had a lot of friends in Edmonton who would show up for it and she said "Yeah they would all come" so I said "Okay, it's in Edmonton then!" I explained about Jeni, and about the other bridesmaid who wouldn't answer the phone, and she said it's their loss, if they don't want to come they're missing out. She was so good about everything and told me to stop being silly and stressing out. I told her "I just didn't want you to be upset if everyone wasn't there" and she said "As long as you're there that's all I care about!" and she thanked me for thinking of her and how she'd like her friends to be around (instead of having it in our hometown). I was getting teary at work because she was being so nice lol... and then she told me that I was making her "cry of happiness" and that I was the best maid of honor she could have gotten
I told her she's the best bride I could have hoped to be maid of honor for because she doesn't care if everything's not perfect.
Anyways, she also tried calling the other bridesmaid and got no answer. BUT Scott and I were shopping tonight and she called! She said her husband must have listened to the messages and didn't tell her. Anyways, we got things straightened out tonight and it looks like the three of us bridesmaids will be planning a party in Edmonton! Now I'm stress-free and excited again!