Pink Cupcakes

Absolutely yes I do consider it cheating. I think it is pure BS and it makes me absolutely furious. I have my own computer, and my husband has his own computer. They are in the same room though and are right beside each other. We both need our own computers for work purposes. He thinks I don't know squat about them, when I in fact know alot more than he thinks I do. I have found one thing on his computer before, and I reamed his @$$ for it. I can not help but blow up at this when he knows how much this bothers me. I have told him that if I ever catch anything like this again, the computers will be out of here in a split second, whether they are needed for work or not. I refuse to put up with that crap. We had a loooooooong talk about this one night. And when I say long, I mean hours. I told him that after a talk like that, if he ever did it again, he was extremely brave. And no I was yelling at him. Well ok, at first I was, but after that we calmly talked and I told him that I felt very disrespected and very hurt, and that it was very selfish of him to do such a thing when he knows how much this bothers me. I know he loves me, he shows me that in so many ways. But you shouldn't do something that you know will hurt the one you love. Hopefully he thinks twice next time. I haven't found anything since..