Thanks for the advice ladies. I do really appreciate it. For now I am letting things be.
Also, I think I may have caused some confusion. I had told her kids to go to bed first, and I had laid out the rules before she came over, and it was only after her kids had ignored me that my husband told them to go to bed.
As for her husband, I let that go after I gave my advice to her, and she kept throwing it back to me. I had known he had cheated for two weeks before he told her. I only admitted that I had known when she confronted me about it. I didn't feel it was my place to tell her.
I think that at this point, I am willing to let her know I miss her, but there has been a lot less drama since I haven't had contact with her.
Thank you everyone, for the great advice and insight. and i am sorry I haven't replied...had some computer troubles this week and had to get a new tower. LOL
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