[Marilyn]

JUdy, please try to not let this hurt your relationship with your daughter and sil. You were worried about this when you moved there. Just keep cool and if you feel that they are imposing a bit, you can gently make some plans without them once in a while.

You seem, from what we get to see, that you are really enjoying your new home and your relationship with your family. It takes work, as you well know, to make our relationships work. None of them are anywhere near perfect on their own.

Gayle has a great suggestion with regard to how to have someone else do the work and explain it to your sil.

Huggs to you!!!!!