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khardy57 · 10-16-2006, 05:20 PM

I was cheated on by my first husband and gave him more than one second chance. First of all, you BOTH have to want the marriage to work. If so, he will agree to get help. Secondly, cut ties with the woman. I won't call her friend because she is undeserving of that title. If you have to, get your tel number changed and have it unlisted. Third, at his age he knew better! He'd have to really do some groveling to try to make it better.

I'll pray for you that God gives you the strength and courage to do what's right for YOU!

10-16-2006, 05:20 PM	#14
khardy57 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 278	I was cheated on by my first husband and gave him more than one second chance. First of all, you BOTH have to want the marriage to work. If so, he will agree to get help. Secondly, cut ties with the woman. I won't call her friend because she is undeserving of that title. If you have to, get your tel number changed and have it unlisted. Third, at his age he knew better! He'd have to really do some groveling to try to make it better. I'll pray for you that God gives you the strength and courage to do what's right for YOU!