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				two cups of coffee...
			 
			
			
			A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			>of >him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty >mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the >students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. > >The professor then picked up a box of pebble! s and p oured them into the jar >He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between >the >golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They >agreed it was. > >The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of >course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar >was full. The students responded with an unanimous 'yes.' > >The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and >poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space >between the sand. The students laughed. > >'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to >recognize >that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important >things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your >favorite passions---and if everything else ! was los t and only they remained, >your life would still be full. > >The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and >your car. > >The sand is everything else---the small stuff. 'If you put the sand into >the >jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf >balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the >small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to >you. > > >'Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend >time >with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents & >parents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. >Play another 18 There will always be time to clean the house and fix the >disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really >matt! er. >Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.' > >One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee >represented. The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.' > >The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, >there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.' > >I just had to share this, i just loved this, made sense to me.... 
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			That's a great lesson! Cute story, thanks for posting that. I've heard it before, but it's a great reminder. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Its so true too, you really don't have anything (except material possessions) if you don't have your family or friends, i am so blessed, i have five really good friends i hung on too over the years, and i am so greatful for them, and believe it or not one is my sister, she would do anything for me.. and vis-versa...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I've seen this one many times before, but reminders are so good for us.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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