Sick of it!

[Mandy]

No matter where i go, which forum i visit (around the world) who i chat with, and who i see in real life, i feel like i don't belong, and i'm sick of it!! I get the feeling i get looked at, or thought of like i just dropped out of space!!
I go out of my way to be nice, and what for?? I'm invisable whether i'm nice or not, so why keep trying!!

I'm SICK of it all UGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[khardy57]

Mandy, I've felt the same way on different forums. I think sometimes when you try to join in an established one, the older members sometimes ignore you.

I think you're doing the right thing by just being yourself and being friendly and approachable.

Take care.
Kim

[Janet]

Mandy, I hate that you feel that way. I do too on one other forum, but not all the time. I think if I would post more there it would help, but I'm always afraid of being critisized.

I sure hope you don't feel that way here. It's been pretty slow, and I have to admit, I haven't been here as much lately. Oh I check in a couple times a day, but don't always post.

I for one, want you to know you're liked, wanted and needed here!!!

[Tink]

Mandy, I'm sorry you feel bad!

I know it can be hard to feel you fit in sometimes. I think we all experiencce it to some degree. I hope you know you're always welcome here.

I belong to several different sites, and have to say this is the only one where there just isn't ANYONE I don't really care for. It's unique that no one is nasty or overbearing. I love that we all support each other and show genuine concern for each other.

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by Tink

Mandy, I'm sorry you feel bad!

I know it can be hard to feel you fit in sometimes. I think we all experiencce it to some degree. I hope you know you're always welcome here.

I belong to several different sites, and have to say this is the only one where there just isn't ANYONE I don't really care for. It's unique that no one is nasty or overbearing. I love that we all support each other and show genuine concern for each other.

Tink, that's so sweet of you!

Mandy, I know how you feel. It's been really slow on here lately and posts aren't getting answered very quickly. I had one that had over 11 lookers before anyone answered it. Like you, I was feeling pretty bummed about it. I know that the past few weeks while I was working I checked things out but really didn't have the energy to post any answers. We just need to post more things about what's going on in our lives and get some action going here.

[Marilyn]

Mandy, please don't leave us. I feel the same way sometimes. I'll post in a thread, and no one acknowledges my comment at all. I too feel invisible at time, but I realize that sometimes it's me, and what I posted did not peek anyone's interest. Oh well, your comments are always appreciated!! even when they are not always acknowledged.

Please stick with us. It's been slow lately. I for one have been cleaning and trying to get to the gym more, cook healthier foods & plan our vacation this year. I think we are spending 3 weeks in Europe, so I've got lots of planning to do.

Please stick with us!!!!

[Gina]

[QUOTE=Mandy]No matter where i go, which forum i visit (around the world) who i chat with, and who i see in real life, i feel like i don't belong, and i'm sick of it!! I get the feeling i get looked at, or thought of like i just dropped out of space!!
I go out of my way to be nice, and what for?? I'm invisable whether i'm nice or not, so why keep trying!!

I'm SICK of it all UGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/QUOTE


Mandy sometimes I feel that way with another forum but you know what who cares, they dont personally know me and its their misfortune. You belong here so keep on posting girl, I myself have been busy and not posting much but I do read the threads daily... Keep them coming and your not invisible.