My son's friend

[Mandy]

My son passed hes scooter driving test last week, first time, he did very well, and we are proud of him. They can go for the scooter test when they turn 16, and drivers test (car) at 18, in this country, incase some of you didnt know.

We keep telling him to drive careful, dont go too fast, no racing with friends, my nervs have been shot about it, and it really takes getting used to, knowing he is out there riding a scooter, i had several of them, and know they are FUN to ride, i know how fast they go, heck i even did wheelies on them, but to think my own son is driving one, is about to drive me to drink.

Anyhow, hes friend, passed the test a few days ago, and was hit by a drunken driver late yesterday afternoon. The car caught him from the side going 120km per hour. Due to the impact, he flew off hes scooter, and landed a few meters futher on the pavement, broke hes leg, arm, but thank goodness, he had tied hes helmet under the chin, and was wearing a full helmet.


Lastnight my son drives into our street, and hes scooter breaks down, and to tell you, i honestly dont mind, hes dad told him to take it to the shop this am, and as far as i'm concerned, it can stay there!

[rivermom]

Oh Mandy - I am so sorry about your son's friend. Thank goodness it wasn't worse, oh my goodness.

All 3 of my kids have gone through that "begginning" driver stage and it is frustrating/scary/nerve wracking, etc. It truly is enough to send a Mom over the edge. But....it's that part of their life just as we had gone through when we were their age.

Place that bottled up fear into an angel's hands and try to relax. Let your son experience the same as you did. You've been great sitting him down and explaining all the responsibilities that having a scooter has and that's important.

Wouldn't it be nice if we could wrap a plastic bubble around all those we love in hopes to protect from every danger out there? Let life's mishaps just bounce off them and never harm! In a perfect world I guess?

Anyway - try not to worry your heart too much. Before you know it he will give you something else to worry about, LOL (kidding)

It's just what we mother's do....worry till we're sick, totally amazing isn't it?

Tell Collin I am glad his scooter broke down, LOL (kidding) but that when he get's back on and riding to thank his lucky stars for everything around him and to be safe. He's lucky he's only got one Mom, LOL cuz I am sure their are plenty of Mom's who could sit him down along with you and give him that list of do's and don'ts. OMG wouldn't he freak? hahahahha

Hugs!!

[DianaB]

I'm glad to hear that your son's friend wasn't hurt too awful badly. Your son will learn to be even more cautious now that he's seen what can happen. There are so many things out in this world that are dangerous for our children and so we just have to place them in God's hands. But Mom's always worry about their children. It's what we do best!!!!

[Janet]

Oh Mandy I know your pain. My son got his drivers license last January and I'm still a nervous wreck when he takes off. I wish here in the states they would raise the age to 18, but it would 'cramp' too many parents lives, I guess.

Hope your son's friend heals quickly and will always be careful and watchful of others.

[AngieDoogles]

Aww Mandy, I'm so sorry about your son's friend. I'm glad he wasn't hurt badly though.

It must be such a scary time for mothers when their children start driving. I remember how scared my mom was because her brother was killed in an automobile accident. It was difficult to convince her to let me drive, but she did because she knew I would need to learn at some point...

[katepoet]

We have friends with scooters here, too, but the traffic is so heavy I don't want our son to get one. They just aren't as expected I think. I am glad your son's friend survived - hope he is a quick healer. I am also glad that your son's scooter broke down at home and not on some main road while in transit - phew! Hang in there, Mom!