male mucky mags

what do all you ladies think about them? would you be ok if your partner had some? maybe you both use them as part of your sex life? you hate them and would go mad if you found out your partner had some? how many of you think your partner has got some that he hides? how many of you know your partner would never look at one? im kinda on the fence with this, one half says if we shared it in are sex life i would be fine with it but then the other half says or would i? i know for def i wouldnt be pleased if i found out my partner was hiding any and not told me whats your feelings on mens mags or videos?

[Janet]

I don't really care.... I guess. It's not like there's a chance in hell he could get one of them....LOL We're all dreamers in one way or another, so what the heck....

I don't have any problem with them (mags or videos). In fact I gave my hubby a magazine subscription for a birthday present last year. But, this is just me. If I did feel uncomfortable with things of this nature I would be really mad if he didn't take my feelings under consideration and respect my wishes. I think if you're in a committed relationship the girl gets to decide the rules on these things.

[hle_625]

I dont really care either, like Janet said there is no way that he is going to get the girls. Plus he comes home to me everynight not them, so I dont have anythign to worry about! He has magazines and videos and we look at them together

[RLC12345678]

I know my hubby doesn't have any videos or mags, but I honestly wouldn't care too much if he did....as long as he was honest about it. However, if it ever came to the point where he was looking at mags or videos over having sex with me, now that is where we would have a problem. As long as looking at them doesn't interfere with our relationship and he makes me feel secure and comfortable, I'm cool with it.

[Mandy]

I don't care either... if looking at a mag makes he's day, good luck to him

[Necee419]

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I know my hubby doesn't have any videos or mags, but I honestly wouldn't care too much if he did....as long as he was honest about it. However, if it ever came to the point where he was looking at mags or videos over having sex with me, now that is where we would have a problem. As long as looking at them doesn't interfere with our relationship and he makes me feel secure and comfortable, I'm cool with it.

I agree. As long as your partner doesn't prefer the mags over you, its ok. However I think that if the woman feels really insecure about this and expresses that to her husband, he should respect her wishes and refrain from looking at those things. I truly believe anything goes in a relationship, so long as BOTH people are on the same page.

I don't have a problem with them in general but I don't really care for my hubby looking at them. My reason is though is that he wouldn't like me looking at something like that so I don't think its fair that he could look at them. Same with strip clubs he would have a problem if I went so I just think that since he doesn't want me going (not that this issue has actually came up in real life, just discussions) then he should have enough respect for me not to do something he wouldn't like, if you can understand any of that. We watch movies together so if its something that we do together then it doesn't bother me but just him doing it, I'm not a big fan.....