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10-08-2006, 02:01 PM
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OMG!!! I was sooo LIVID!!!
Us parents had a meeting this afternoon. Here's the original thread to tell you about the problem... http://www.4womentalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=661
The problems are petty and I'm sure the girls will work through them. However, yesterday, my daughter called Ashley and Ashley told her, "I'M A TROUBLE MAKER. I CAN'T TALK TO GOOD GIRLS!" Then, she hung up. Ashley posted on my daughter's myspace that someone at Hunter's house told her I called her a trouble maker. In the midst of our meeting today, I confronted Ashley (with dad there) who told her that because it was a lie. I could NOT believe my ears. Hunter's MOM told her that! WTF????? I asked Hunter's mom why she told Ashley that because it is NOT true and asked her if she realized the hurt feelings that she has now caused!!! Her mom said, "Well, the girls were telling me how you go on Ashley's myspace and post things on there and how you're constantly watching her." EXCUSE ME??? While looking at Ashley, I told her, "You KNOW that is NOT true! I don't even know your password so how could I post things on YOUR myspace???" The mother then took it upon herself (probably thinking she's defending Ashley) and told her, "Well, Miss Kim said that you were a trouble maker." OMG! I started shaking I was SOOOO mad. How can a GROWN ASS woman go and tell lies to a little girl just to stir s*** up???? Later in the conversation, her mother said, "Kim, you look upset." UH, YEAH!?!?! I told her again..."I just can't believe you told her that". She apologized a couple of times then had the audacity to ask if my daughter could stay the night at her house. UUUUM, NO!! Hunter is not a bad kid but I don't think my daughter will be going to her house anymore because her mom obviously has some issues! 
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10-08-2006, 02:13 PM
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Oh Kimberley that totally sucks!! I just don't understand why adults can not act like adults!!!! (Similiar to what I went through with the bus thing). How can the kids learn to be truthful if they have no parent as an example? In some ways it seems best if your child moves on from this friendship. If she grows up imitating her mother, your daughter will suffer for it. It's just so sad...I want to say I can't believe it, but it's reality that some parents are just not good examples and should not be raising children.
I hope you keep telling your daughter how wonderful she is and that you are proud of her for behaving like a young lady. Maybe her friend could spend more time at your house and you could be her example... 
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10-08-2006, 02:15 PM
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OMG!!!!!!!! I would have been livid too!! I can't believe she is like that and she is a MOM. Makes you wonder if she tells her kids it is ok to lie?
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10-08-2006, 04:32 PM
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What a witch! I would've been livid too! I wish I had words of wisdom for you, but all I can say is I'll be thinking of you and your daughter and hoping for the best
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10-08-2006, 04:41 PM
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Wow, what a crazy woman! Sounds like my ex-step-mom... she was crazy like that too. I feel bad for poor Ashley - that must have really hurt her feelings
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10-09-2006, 12:00 AM
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That woman obviously has some issues!
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10-13-2006, 09:00 AM
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How are things going with your daughter and her friend? Hope things between them are a little less tense and getting better if that is what your daughter wants.
Wouldn't go back to school age for nothing!!
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10-13-2006, 02:10 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe as time goes on and become a little more mature, they'll work their way back together.
I thought being a kid, when I was a kid, sucked...but I think it's 100 times worse today.
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