Do you ever have those days...

[Kimberley]

when you want to say, "F*** IT ALL!!!" Maybe I'm just moody because it's that time of month, but I swear, some days I just want to throw in the towel. It could be work, house work, husband, kids all combined but some days I just feel so overwhelmed I could just cry...or scream!

Are women more proned to this? I wonder if men ever go through this?

[magnolia]

I too have days like that. Just don't want to do anything and don't want to be bothered!!! Hubby has days like that as well but not as often as I do. Of course, I have nothing to base this comment on but I do think women tend to have more "mood swings" than men where they just want to throw their hands up and forget everything!!!

[Mandy78]

I know I have days like that too...especially during that time of the month! Its only natural to feel like that. Its ok girl... let it all out!!! Go to the gym and take out your frustrations there!!!! I love the punching bags for that reason! LOL!

[hle_625]

I have those days too. I just sit and cry. LOL! It helps for me just to cry it all out!

[Amber_lv]

i definently have those days i hate them but we need a break sometimes and we need to take it.

I have those days.....i dont think hubby does unless he hides it well..

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Kimberley

when you want to say, "F*** IT ALL!!!" Maybe I'm just moody because it's that time of month, but I swear, some days I just want to throw in the towel. It could be work, house work, husband, kids all combined but some days I just feel so overwhelmed I could just cry...or scream!

Are women more proned to this? I wonder if men ever go through this?

Darn near everyday anymore. I'm tired, just plain tired of everything being on my shoulders. If I don't do it, it doesn't get done. I can leave a list and hubby will do it, but in his time frame. I even have to decide where we go, what we do, and I'm just plain tired of it. So just about everyday, at least once, I feel that way too!!!

[blowry]

I too feel this way from time to time..I am pre-menopausal and somedays I just don't want to do a thing! And I don't!! I have my 2 little furbabies and 2 grown up daughters. My husband (of 7 yrs in Nov) just doesn't understand what us women go through...He has only been married to me...no children and is an only child (until this past July....another story for another day!) So he has only had himself to think about...He doesn't like it when I get upset and thinks it's because of something that he has done (sometimes it is! ) but, I play with my furbabies, quilt, and do what ever I want when I am in one of these moods...sometimes it's nothing!

[Mandy]

I have those days too!! I hate them, i just get all depressed, and moody, i just don't want to answer any phone calls, or do any work. Everything just seems to much, when i see people smile i wonder why? LOL ... it's insane!!
A friend and me used to go w/ends away, take the train to Germany to go shopping (those were the days) ... now that i have my yorkies, i don't go anymore, i will NOT leave them behind! I can only imagine what i would come back to if i did LOL ... no no no no no thanks!

I have always had days like this ..NOw at 50 seems like I have only a few good days most days are filled with ragging hormones and F>?": .."S Haha ..Good thing its only temporary.

Don't feel bad...I think it's just a "girl thang" to get all discombobulated. I just go ahead and apologize to my girls and tell them to cover their ears and same to my hubby cuz I just snap and start screaming cusswords left and right...I used to throw stuff around but then I have to clean up the mess i made so I figured swearing isn't as messy...my whole family knows when I start saying the f words to clear out quick. I used to not get pms but as i get older it's just horrible-and the cramps will put you on your knees they get so bad. when i was on birth control i didn't have them but ever since I got my tubes tied two years ago they just keep getting worse. and sometimes it's not just pms...there are just those days that nothing goes right and the house is a mess and the hubby and kids are on their asses watching t.v. and I am running around the house picking up after everybody-I don't mind picking up after the babies cuz they are still children(old enough to do chores though) but my hubby is the messiest man I have ever met. Sometimes I tell him when I agreed to marry him I didn't agree to be his house slave! Don't feel like your crazy just take a hot bubble bath. drink a glass or bottle of wine-hehe!, and read a trashy romance novel with the bathroom door locked and you'll feel better in no time

[Kimberley]

Originally Posted by Janet

Darn near everyday anymore. I'm tired, just plain tired of everything being on my shoulders. If I don't do it, it doesn't get done. I can leave a list and hubby will do it, but in his time frame. I even have to decide where we go, what we do, and I'm just plain tired of it. So just about everyday, at least once, I feel that way too!!!

I think our husbands are brothers!

[Emmsmom]

Girl , You are NOT alone! I have those days too and it only seems to get worse during that "time".I have been where you are and I am about to visit that same place in about a week. I usually get a nice bottle of wine and have a few glasses at night AFTER everyone is in bed. ((HUGS))


Michelle

Oh my God if my husband ever finds this forum he will be rolling on the floor laughing his @$$ off! lol! He is constantly telling me that he doesn't understand women, that we are so moody, have so many problems, are so sensitive, etc., etc., etc. He would say- See! This damn board just proves it! lol. But yeah, in all seriousness I do have those days, more than I would like actually lol. Oh and during that time of the month, my husband knows better than to even come close to pi$$ing me off because he will never hear the end of it. Usually when he knows that aunt flow is in town, he will stay as far away from me as humanly possible lol. I am the PMS QUEEN!!