Self Gratification

Kimberley · 09-08-2006, 11:52 AM

My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?

09-08-2006, 11:54 AM

Masturbation? That's not cheating either! I honestly can't even imagine a world where masturbation would be considered cheating.

Kimberley · 09-08-2006, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Kristy

Masturbation? That's not cheating either! I honestly can't even imagine a world where masturbation would be considered cheating.

hehe! I know but if you think about it...how many women have gotten pissed at their significant others when they catch them in the act?

09-08-2006, 12:03 PM

It would turn me on for sure.

09-08-2006, 12:07 PM

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

ginab · 09-08-2006, 12:35 PM

well i hope i never have to run into seeing that.. oh no....!!!!!

Cribal · 09-08-2006, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Chimchim

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

Yea, it's not cheating and no I wouldn't be mad if I walked in on my hubby doing it. Now I know I wouldn't like to walk in on him doing it to a porn mag. or to internet porn. Now that would cause some issues.

Crystal

RLC12345678 · 09-08-2006, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Chimchim

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

I agree 100% with this.

09-08-2006, 01:01 PM

No I don't constitute it as cheating, hell if it were I'd be guilty of it (in the toy sense) lol, sorry to be so blunt here but if you go read my post to the nitty gritty poll you'll know why I have to do this crap!!

And trust me, I'd rather not do it but God, what other choice do I freaking have!! Anyway, as I said I don't constitute it as cheating however- if he did this all the time and I knew about it- I would be pissed. Again, read my post to the nitty gritty poll and you'll know why. If he has the desire for self gratification but not for me, yeah- s*** would be hitting the fan. That would piss me off to no end.

Amber_lv · 09-08-2006, 03:02 PM

no i don't think it's cheating but if they will not give you any then i say it's a problem

09-08-2006, 03:30 PM

does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww

and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?"

what can i say....

Amber_lv · 09-08-2006, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ice queen

does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww

and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?"

what can i say....

Rotflmao you are so funny my husband would die and go to heaven if i asked him if he wanted help lol

Necee419 · 09-09-2006, 12:26 PM

I don't think it is cheating. I have actually encouraged my husband to "handle his business" on my period weeks when he is crawling out of his skin. He refuses because he says he left those days behind when he met me. Now as someone else said, if it replaces sex altogether, then there is a problem.

Ponyup · 09-11-2006, 10:12 AM

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

rivermom · 09-11-2006, 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimberley

My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?

Why would they rather have sex with themselves then you? LOL, that's my question.

If it's just masturbation than I find nothing wrong with that, go at it! I don't feel this is cheating in the least. But if "they'd rather please them self than have you do it", ugh...Id wanna know why?

09-08-2006, 11:52 AM	#1
Kimberley Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: The Lone Star State Posts: 671	Self Gratification My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?

09-08-2006, 03:02 PM	#10
Amber_lv Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Salt Lake Posts: 983	no i don't think it's cheating but if they will not give you any then i say it's a problem __________________ Peeka-Boo-Daisy-Designs for all your doggy clothing needs Peeka's Myspace Daisy's Myspace

09-08-2006, 11:54 AM	#2
Kristy Guest Posts: n/a	Masturbation? That's not cheating either! I honestly can't even imagine a world where masturbation would be considered cheating.

09-08-2006, 12:03 PM	#4
Kristy Guest Posts: n/a	It would turn me on for sure.

09-08-2006, 12:07 PM	#5
Chimchim Guest Posts: n/a	I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

09-08-2006, 12:35 PM	#6
ginab Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 109	well i hope i never have to run into seeing that.. oh no....!!!!!

09-08-2006, 01:01 PM	#9
Pink Cupcakes Guest Posts: n/a	No I don't constitute it as cheating, hell if it were I'd be guilty of it (in the toy sense) lol, sorry to be so blunt here but if you go read my post to the nitty gritty poll you'll know why I have to do this crap!! And trust me, I'd rather not do it but God, what other choice do I freaking have!! Anyway, as I said I don't constitute it as cheating however- if he did this all the time and I knew about it- I would be pissed. Again, read my post to the nitty gritty poll and you'll know why. If he has the desire for self gratification but not for me, yeah- s*** would be hitting the fan. That would piss me off to no end.

09-08-2006, 03:30 PM	#11
ice queen Guest Posts: n/a	does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?" what can i say....

09-09-2006, 12:26 PM	#13
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	I don't think it is cheating. I have actually encouraged my husband to "handle his business" on my period weeks when he is crawling out of his skin. He refuses because he says he left those days behind when he met me. Now as someone else said, if it replaces sex altogether, then there is a problem.

09-11-2006, 10:12 AM	#14
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else. There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

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