your first time

03-19-2007, 04:24 PM

i was talking to my friend today and we were talking about the first time we had kissed a boy

we had met these 2 boys and she kissed the boy she was with and i then kissed the boy i was with and after we chatted about it and she just kept on going on and on about how great it was and when she shut up and asked me what i thought all i could say was his tongue felt like a slug lol

we were 15 at the time.
we were then talking about are first time having sex and weather it was what we had expected, i just remember thinking oh is that it then?lol
it that the big deal thing that my friends go on about?
well it wasnt what i had expected and as for my friend well she got more than she expected when she was holding a baby boy 9 months later.
she was 15 when she had her first time and i was 16.
i was wondering how old were you when you kissed for the first time and when you had sex for the first time and was it what you had expected?

Ponyup · 03-20-2007, 07:22 AM

My first kiss I believe I was 12. I was at camp & met a boy I liked. I was trying to ease my way into it & was gonna give him a kiss on the cheek, but he turned his head & it was a quick kiss on the lips, but the ones to follow were much better. I remember talking to my friends at camp & saying he keeps rubbing his tongue on my lips & they were like just open your mouth.

My first time was nice, but I wish it would've been with someone i was in love with, I was 19. It wasn't at all what I expected, but it was nice; however, soon after he turned into a giant jerk, but what do you do you can't take things back.

cindy0721 · 03-20-2007, 07:30 AM

Hmmm.. my first kiss I was 4..lol... I know ... it was my next door neighbor.... but truly truly I was in 6th grade.. Matthew Cruz.... we were together for 1 year.. all of 6th grade...lol... I laugh when I think about it.... he was a sweet guy... my first time I was 16..... it was with my first love and I would not trade that for the world... I am so happy it was with him.. I was his first too.... it was truly special....

Chandra Amaya · 03-20-2007, 08:23 AM

My first kiss was at age 9. It was the boy across from us. His name was Bobby Swanner. He was the cutiest blond haired, blue eyed thing in 4th grade lol. My mom rcently told me he is in Florida now married with a couple of kids & doing well. It was alittle odd. I think I was too nervous to know what to expect.

My first time having sex I was 14. It was my first love & we were supposed to be "engaged". We dated for 6 months then he left for Ohio right after I found out I was PG. My son is now 14 & driving me insane but I wouldn't change it because then I wouldn't have him. His father now has 3 or 4 kids & sees my son when he visits his Grandmother for a week in the summer. They have never been a big part in his life but atleast he does see them some. It was not at all what either of us expected. It was the first time for both of us. We expected just to "know" what to do but found out not so much true.

Janet · 03-21-2007, 04:56 AM

I honestly don't remember my first kiss. I think it was in Jr. high with my first REAL boyfriend. My 'other' first time was when I was 17 with my husband. It was really not what I expected. I remember when we got married (I was 19, he was 21) we 'did it' every night for the first 8 or 9 days and I was thinking, crap.....do married couples do it every night? I was beginning to get tired of it. Then things started getting normal if that's what you want to call it. I'm so glad he finally (must have) gotten as tired of it as I did.....LOL

Mandy · 03-21-2007, 05:29 AM

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

Janet · 03-21-2007, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

Mandy · 03-21-2007, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

janet, dont feel bad, i was so naive back than, before i learnt different i used to think people would be able to tell on my face, that ide break out in pimples or something.

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

OMG visuals!!

03-22-2007, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

lol i still walk like that janet

lets just say my other half wasnt at the end of the queue when they were handing out mens making babies bits lol

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

That's hysterical Mandy!

I am trying to remember if I have ever laughed after a kiss or not??

03-19-2007, 04:24 PM	#1
sashajade Guest Posts: n/a	your first time i was talking to my friend today and we were talking about the first time we had kissed a boy we had met these 2 boys and she kissed the boy she was with and i then kissed the boy i was with and after we chatted about it and she just kept on going on and on about how great it was and when she shut up and asked me what i thought all i could say was his tongue felt like a slug lol we were 15 at the time. we were then talking about are first time having sex and weather it was what we had expected, i just remember thinking oh is that it then?lol it that the big deal thing that my friends go on about? well it wasnt what i had expected and as for my friend well she got more than she expected when she was holding a baby boy 9 months later. she was 15 when she had her first time and i was 16. i was wondering how old were you when you kissed for the first time and when you had sex for the first time and was it what you had expected?

03-20-2007, 07:30 AM	#3
cindy0721 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Lone Star State Posts: 389	Hmmm.. my first kiss I was 4..lol... I know ... it was my next door neighbor.... but truly truly I was in 6th grade.. Matthew Cruz.... we were together for 1 year.. all of 6th grade...lol... I laugh when I think about it.... he was a sweet guy... my first time I was 16..... it was with my first love and I would not trade that for the world... I am so happy it was with him.. I was his first too.... it was truly special.... __________________ Cindy " My mechanic told me, "I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder."

03-20-2007, 08:23 AM	#4
Chandra Amaya 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Tn Posts: 1,646	My first kiss was at age 9. It was the boy across from us. His name was Bobby Swanner. He was the cutiest blond haired, blue eyed thing in 4th grade lol. My mom rcently told me he is in Florida now married with a couple of kids & doing well. It was alittle odd. I think I was too nervous to know what to expect. My first time having sex I was 14. It was my first love & we were supposed to be "engaged". We dated for 6 months then he left for Ohio right after I found out I was PG. My son is now 14 & driving me insane but I wouldn't change it because then I wouldn't have him. His father now has 3 or 4 kids & sees my son when he visits his Grandmother for a week in the summer. They have never been a big part in his life but atleast he does see them some. It was not at all what either of us expected. It was the first time for both of us. We expected just to "know" what to do but found out not so much true. __________________ Traci

03-21-2007, 04:56 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I honestly don't remember my first kiss. I think it was in Jr. high with my first REAL boyfriend. My 'other' first time was when I was 17 with my husband. It was really not what I expected. I remember when we got married (I was 19, he was 21) we 'did it' every night for the first 8 or 9 days and I was thinking, crap.....do married couples do it every night? I was beginning to get tired of it. Then things started getting normal if that's what you want to call it. I'm so glad he finally (must have) gotten as tired of it as I did.....LOL __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-21-2007, 05:29 AM	#6
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up! My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it" is THIS what they all bragging about I didnt think it was cool at all! It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-20-2007, 07:22 AM	#2
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	My first kiss I believe I was 12. I was at camp & met a boy I liked. I was trying to ease my way into it & was gonna give him a kiss on the cheek, but he turned his head & it was a quick kiss on the lips, but the ones to follow were much better. I remember talking to my friends at camp & saying he keeps rubbing his tongue on my lips & they were like just open your mouth. My first time was nice, but I wish it would've been with someone i was in love with, I was 19. It wasn't at all what I expected, but it was nice; however, soon after he turned into a giant jerk, but what do you do you can't take things back.

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