I'm so moody!!!!!!!!!!

[toodles]

I'm very moody. irritable. i swear i just keep snapping at everyone! i don't know how my dh puts up with me. I get to the point at the end of the day that anything and everything he says is just wrong. i can be in a great mood all day and then he starts talking to me and i just lose it. i am not cut out for marriage. honestly. i really have my days when i just dont know if I can do it.

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by toodles

I'm very moody. irritable. i swear i just keep snapping at everyone! i don't know how my dh puts up with me. I get to the point at the end of the day that anything and everything he says is just wrong. i can be in a great mood all day and then he starts talking to me and i just lose it. i am not cut out for marriage. honestly. i really have my days when i just dont know if I can do it.

I think everyone has days like this. You are not a bad person and I'm sure you are a great wife. Don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure your hubby understands.

[toodles]

i am a very independent person and he is one of those types that feels he has to take care of people all the time...hold their hand through life. I have a hard time with that. I am ok with him "taking care of me" in the ways that a husband should...but it gets to be too much with him sometimes. I am just irritated. every day it gets harder. it wasn't like this AT ALL before we got married!!

[Forgivenmom5]

You haven't been married very long and it takes time to get used to each other. Just give it time and I'm sure it will be OK..sometimes we just try too hard

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by Forgivenmom5

You haven't been married very long and it takes time to get used to each other. Just give it time and I'm sure it will be OK..sometimes we just try too hard

This is true. Some say the first year of marriage is one of the most difficult because you have to adjust to each other and learn to live together in a way that is acceptable to both of you. There's a lot to figure out during the first year, but you'll get there.

[toodles]

Originally Posted by Forgivenmom5

You haven't been married very long and it takes time to get used to each other. Just give it time and I'm sure it will be OK..sometimes we just try too hard

I hope you are right. He just pushes buttons that I can't handle. it seems to get worse and worse every day. we have lived together for 2 years+ and have been legally married for 1 year in May. we had our big wedding in Nov. (we are weird like that....). so I guess I just expected it would get better and not worse. it is getting worse. our relationship has gone from loving and affectionate to more of a business type of relationship. in a very short time. it's weird.

[Forgivenmom5]

Maybe it would help for the two of you to get away--Maybe on a weekend when your little one is with her Dad