I did a stupid thing!!

Janet · 05-09-2007, 05:41 AM

Today I had a man call and want to come and look at the puppies. Without thinking, I said sure and told him where I lived. When I hung up the phone I thought to myself..."that was a dumb thing to do" I live in the country and I was home alone.

He arrived and was a very nice, tall, dark looking man. As nervous as I was, I let him in and he went directly to the puppies. He just loved on the little boy and I stayed between him and the door. He asked questions, I answered, I asked questions, he answered. He then said he had my number and would like to bring his girlfriend back. He stuck out his hand to shake mine, I obliged and then he left.

He was a very nice man, but I started thinking about the robberies of Yorkies and just everything bad. I was so scared, but I think I did good toward earning a nomination for an Emmy! I will never do that again...

Tink · 05-09-2007, 06:42 AM

Janet, I'm glad it went well. I used to worry about that when I sold real estate and would have to meet men in vacant houses. There have been some sickos that took advantage of women that way too. So I know it can be worrisome.

If you're not comfortable doing this, try to schedule differently. I know it's hard to stall people but you have to do what's best for you.

Chandra Amaya · 05-09-2007, 06:44 AM

I'm glad things turned out ok Janet. It is sad that we have to worry about things like this in society. Maybe try meeting people who want to see the puppies at a park where you know other people will be?

Janet · 05-09-2007, 07:04 AM

Thanks all, it was such a shock when he called, because he saw a sign and called from right up the road. Next time I am definitely telling them that they can come of an evening when everyone is home.

judy · 05-09-2007, 08:18 AM

Isn't it something! I won't even open my door for anyone who I don't know.

I'm glad this was a nice person and nothing happened to you.

AngieDoogles · 05-09-2007, 08:33 AM

I agree with Traci. It's sad that we live in a our world where you can't even trust someone to come look at your puppies without being afraid. I'm glad things worked out alright Janet. I'll be sad when your puppies are gone though...

05-09-2007, 05:41 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	I did a stupid thing!! Today I had a man call and want to come and look at the puppies. Without thinking, I said sure and told him where I lived. When I hung up the phone I thought to myself..."that was a dumb thing to do" I live in the country and I was home alone. He arrived and was a very nice, tall, dark looking man. As nervous as I was, I let him in and he went directly to the puppies. He just loved on the little boy and I stayed between him and the door. He asked questions, I answered, I asked questions, he answered. He then said he had my number and would like to bring his girlfriend back. He stuck out his hand to shake mine, I obliged and then he left. He was a very nice man, but I started thinking about the robberies of Yorkies and just everything bad. I was so scared, but I think I did good toward earning a nomination for an Emmy! I will never do that again... __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

05-09-2007, 06:42 AM	#2
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Janet, I'm glad it went well. I used to worry about that when I sold real estate and would have to meet men in vacant houses. There have been some sickos that took advantage of women that way too. So I know it can be worrisome. If you're not comfortable doing this, try to schedule differently. I know it's hard to stall people but you have to do what's best for you. __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

05-09-2007, 06:44 AM	#3
Chandra Amaya 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Tn Posts: 1,646	I'm glad things turned out ok Janet. It is sad that we have to worry about things like this in society. Maybe try meeting people who want to see the puppies at a park where you know other people will be? __________________ Traci

05-09-2007, 07:04 AM	#4
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Thanks all, it was such a shock when he called, because he saw a sign and called from right up the road. Next time I am definitely telling them that they can come of an evening when everyone is home. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

05-09-2007, 08:18 AM	#5
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Isn't it something! I won't even open my door for anyone who I don't know. I'm glad this was a nice person and nothing happened to you. __________________ *Judy*

05-09-2007, 08:33 AM	#6
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	I agree with Traci. It's sad that we live in a our world where you can't even trust someone to come look at your puppies without being afraid. I'm glad things worked out alright Janet. I'll be sad when your puppies are gone though... __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

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