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07-23-2008, 01:36 PM
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Husband that is a SOB
If anything breaks down in our home, he blames me. I did something!!!!
I love him and hate him. I pay my way, all of of my personal needs, medical, dental,makeup, skin care, clothes etc. my Yorkies grooming and medications, I pay for all of the house hold items, sheets, blankets, pillows, etc. I am retired and only get less than $400 a month.,ss.,, have to pay $2,500 dedutible on my health ins. Also pay the pool man $50 a month. Just feed up , need some support.
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07-23-2008, 02:23 PM
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Oh Donna, I'm sorry you're having such a rough time!
Men seem to take it as a personal insult when anything breaks down. They're the "mr Fix-it" who is supposed to keep everything running smoothly and of course they have to blame someone when it falls apart! I know it's hard to stomach being blamed.... just try to remember it's HIS hang up... and he needs to treat you with respect even when he's frustrated. You can tell him I said so! lol HUGS
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07-23-2008, 05:58 PM
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It's just not fair is it Donna? Tink is right. They (some) try to keep things in running condition and when it breaks down they throw a darn fit and blame us. There for awhile, years ago, whenever I mowed the yard, the mower wouldn't start, use the weed eater, it would stop and not start anymore...other things too. My husband would come home from work and then be a real turd. Please don't feel alone. I just quit mowing and weedeating and now if they break down...he can be mad at himself. Maybe you can do the same thing, whatever you're using (if possible) don't do it anymore...let him. {{{{hugs}}}} to ya girl
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07-23-2008, 06:36 PM
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I can't add anything else. I am just gonna sit here and nod my head! I know and understand EXACTLY how you feel. ((HUGS)). We have been married for 14 years and I am just learning the trick that Janet mentioned! When all else fails let them do it and be the one to make the mistake!
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07-24-2008, 08:56 AM
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Donna i wish i could help, but i had the same problem when i got my house everything breaking down, i already got a new fridge, new stove, new microwave, and recently got my grandmothers almost new washer and dryer, hey things break down, they don't last forever, maybe your hubby was having a bad day.. Hope thinngs work out for you girl. i'm really not the one to give relationship advice.. bad luck in that department...
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07-24-2008, 09:34 AM
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I'm so sorry, Donna. Some guys can be real jerks. We're all here if you need us.
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