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Old 10-21-2006, 12:01 AM   #1
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Are you romantic?

I am not a romantic AT ALLLLLL
never have been
and I really doubt I ever will be

but my boyfriend is this total romantic
and I feel bad because I'm like "ugh"
and it's just boring and irritating to me

is anyone else like me?

or am I just an odd one ha ha ha!
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Old 10-21-2006, 08:29 AM   #2
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I am sure not everybody is a romantic nor is this a bad thing. It sounds like you have a very nice boyfriend. Him taking the time to show you romance is his way of telling you he cares.

He'd possibly be hurt to know that you found it boring or bothersome. So when he shows his way of caring find yourself being one of the lucky ones!!

Many women are the opposite wishing their boyfriends/husband were more romantic. I myself LOVE romance and try to add those "special touches" whenever possible. My husband is a romantic person also.
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Old 10-21-2006, 12:18 PM   #3
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Hmmm.... i think my husband is more romantic than me. We walk hand in hand and all that, but when it comes to small details, i find myself in a hurry so often i have to tell myself to slow down, and take note of the small details etc etc...
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Old 10-21-2006, 01:41 PM   #4
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Originally Posted by Miss_Sara
I am not a romantic AT ALLLLLL
never have been
and I really doubt I ever will be

but my boyfriend is this total romantic
and I feel bad because I'm like "ugh"
and it's just boring and irritating to me

is anyone else like me?

or am I just an odd one ha ha ha!

Oh i wouldnt worry too much. I see your still young Heck at your age i didnt even know the meaning of romance, but ive improved a bit after ALL those years
So you see, life changes us as we age LOL
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Old 10-21-2006, 02:17 PM   #5
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Oh i wouldnt worry too much. I see your still young Heck at your age i didnt even know the meaning of romance, but ive improved a bit after ALL those years
So you see, life changes us as we age LOL

Big Time!!! It's amazing that the way we were a few years ago doesn't even match who we are today. At times your head spins and you wonder what the hell happened. LOL!!
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Old 10-23-2006, 10:51 AM   #6
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im not and i tell you this, if i dont straighten up, im gonna be without a b/f real soon... help
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Old 10-23-2006, 10:59 AM   #7
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im not and i tell you this, if i dont straighten up, im gonna be without a b/f real soon... help
I think it's tough to " pretend" to be romantic if it's not in your personallity.

Hey i could use some good tips on the "romance trip" too... so lets hang in here and wait for response, i'm sure some ladies will have great ideas
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Old 10-23-2006, 11:05 AM   #8
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ok mandy we shall wait..
c'mon girls hellp us out here, im for sure need help in this area....only cause its mainly embarassing for me....
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