Waiting To Pass Away

rivermom · 10-24-2006, 08:37 AM

The phone rang last night, it was my hubby's sister. She said "Mom only has hours maybe a day or two to live" to my hubby. His Mom hasn't been doing that well for months now and we knew this. But honestly, there truly is no way to prepare I don't think for losing your Mom.

I cried for my hubby, I couldn't help but cry as I look at his face and see his own tears well up. He's the baby and he's losing his Mama.

It's just like that country song that sings about being the baby in the family, and the son has to hurry up and drive to go kiss his Mama before she passes away.

My hubby just left to Kansas about an hour ago. He's left to go kiss his Mama goodbye. Oh my heart just aches so much for him right now.

She's not eating or drinking, only thing going into her body now is Morphine. The doctors say she has hours possibly a day or so left. It's just a matter of waiting now for both of us to return to Kansas for her funeral.

Death is so natural, we all know it's coming...but it's never easy to see the hurt in those you love so very much. My husband is such a strong individual but all I could do was hold him last night when he cried for his Mama.

magnolia · 10-24-2006, 08:40 AM

Oh, that brought tears to my eyes!! Sending lots of hugs and prayers to you both!

SweetCuteness · 10-24-2006, 08:45 AM

Wow, that is so sad - it brought tears to my eyes also. You, your husband and his family are in my thoughts.

Janet · 10-24-2006, 08:51 AM

Oh Sheryl, my heart is breaking and tears falling for your husband and you. I know the song you're writing about, so touching. Please know you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

2tiredmom · 10-24-2006, 10:01 AM

That is the hardest thing in the world to do. My mom was on morphine also and
I got to be with her when she died this last March. She hadn't been awake for 2 weeks before she died. I am so so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your husband. Your in my prayers.

ginab · 10-24-2006, 10:25 AM

you really have me crying right now, i cant imagine losing my mom.i feel so sorry for your husband,,im sending him hugs right now.. i can only imagine his pain.
your a great wife, he needs you now more than ever.. im sorry she is so sick.
god bless you and your family

Miss_Sara · 10-27-2006, 12:08 AM

I'm so sorry Sheryl. and also for your husband
at least she doesn't have to suffer anymore

*hug*

10-28-2006, 05:22 PM

our prayers are with you and your family.....d

khardy57 · 10-30-2006, 04:49 AM

Sheryl, how is your family? I know you've been busy, but I've been thinking about you and your husband and will continue to pray for ya'll.

Janet · 10-30-2006, 08:12 AM

Hey Sheryl, still continuing to say prayers for you and your family during this tragic time. Let us know how you and your family are doing!

10-24-2006, 08:37 AM	#1
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	Waiting To Pass Away The phone rang last night, it was my hubby's sister. She said "Mom only has hours maybe a day or two to live" to my hubby. His Mom hasn't been doing that well for months now and we knew this. But honestly, there truly is no way to prepare I don't think for losing your Mom. I cried for my hubby, I couldn't help but cry as I look at his face and see his own tears well up. He's the baby and he's losing his Mama. It's just like that country song that sings about being the baby in the family, and the son has to hurry up and drive to go kiss his Mama before she passes away. My hubby just left to Kansas about an hour ago. He's left to go kiss his Mama goodbye. Oh my heart just aches so much for him right now. She's not eating or drinking, only thing going into her body now is Morphine. The doctors say she has hours possibly a day or so left. It's just a matter of waiting now for both of us to return to Kansas for her funeral. Death is so natural, we all know it's coming...but it's never easy to see the hurt in those you love so very much. My husband is such a strong individual but all I could do was hold him last night when he cried for his Mama. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

10-24-2006, 08:40 AM	#2
magnolia Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Mississippi Posts: 482	Oh, that brought tears to my eyes!! Sending lots of hugs and prayers to you both! __________________ Suzi "Wrinkles will only go where the smiles have been"....Jimmy Buffett

10-24-2006, 08:45 AM	#3
SweetCuteness Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Oro Valley, AZ Posts: 120	Wow, that is so sad - it brought tears to my eyes also. You, your husband and his family are in my thoughts. __________________ Britta Nobody gets to live life backward. Look ahead, that is where your future lies.

10-24-2006, 08:51 AM	#4
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Oh Sheryl, my heart is breaking and tears falling for your husband and you. I know the song you're writing about, so touching. Please know you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-24-2006, 10:01 AM	#5
2tiredmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,367	That is the hardest thing in the world to do. My mom was on morphine also and I got to be with her when she died this last March. She hadn't been awake for 2 weeks before she died. I am so so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your husband. Your in my prayers. __________________ The real measure of a woman's wealth is what she has invested in eternity. Linda aka 2tiredmom

10-24-2006, 10:25 AM	#6
ginab Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 109	you really have me crying right now, i cant imagine losing my mom.i feel so sorry for your husband,,im sending him hugs right now.. i can only imagine his pain. your a great wife, he needs you now more than ever.. im sorry she is so sick. god bless you and your family

10-27-2006, 12:08 AM	#7
Miss_Sara Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 120	I'm so sorry Sheryl. and also for your husband at least she doesn't have to suffer anymore hug __________________ God has filled my arms

10-28-2006, 05:22 PM	#8
TootiesMom Guest Posts: n/a	our prayers are with you and your family.....d

10-30-2006, 04:49 AM	#9
khardy57 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 278	Sheryl, how is your family? I know you've been busy, but I've been thinking about you and your husband and will continue to pray for ya'll.

10-30-2006, 08:12 AM	#10
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Hey Sheryl, still continuing to say prayers for you and your family during this tragic time. Let us know how you and your family are doing! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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