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Old 03-13-2011, 04:45 AM   #1
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Good Day?

I am so excited that my younger brother is coming soon to take Mom for the day. He was going to take her to church, but for some reason changed his mind (probably afraid the roof would fall in on him) anyway.....he did say something about taking her to her house for awhile and then who knows what.

She has been a bit of a bear here lately. Very impatient, finally showing her true colors of wanting things done her way, when she wants them. So Brad coming to get her is a real treat.....for me!!!

My other brother's wife will be taking her to her Dr. appt on Monday for hip pain. I did four days of Dr. appts last week so finally someone is stepping up.

Today...I'm heading to Lafayette to get me an IPad...I'm so excited. Only bad thing...will have to listen to Mom tell me what a waste and make me feel guilty for charging it. TOO BAD....lolol
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Old 03-13-2011, 06:53 AM   #2
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Oh Janet! I'm so happy to hear that your brother is helping out with your Mom today! It will give you a much needed break! Have a wonderful day! Happy "Ipad" shopping! Don't let anyone make you feel guilty about buying it! You work hard and you are a wonderful person! There comes a time once in a while when we need to do something special for ourselves! You deserve it!
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:34 AM   #3
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Wow!!! Go Janet! I can't wait to hear about your new iPad!!!
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Old 03-13-2011, 08:17 AM   #4
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Janet, I'm so glad you are getting a day off. In caregiving terms it is called respite. All caregivers need respite, it is extremely important to prevent burnout. Your mom is staring to settle in and be more like herself. You'll need to work to keep the boundaries and keep your sanity. I hope your family continues to help you out.
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Old 03-13-2011, 03:30 PM   #5
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Janet, I am so glad that you are getting a break today, you really need it. I just wish you had called me earlier so i could have made other plans, i would have loved going to town with you.
I hope you were able to get your iPad today!!
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:01 PM   #6
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Never feel bad about taking a break because it just makes you a better caregiver! I can't wait to hear all about your iPad!!
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