your first time

03-19-2007, 04:24 PM

i was talking to my friend today and we were talking about the first time we had kissed a boy

we had met these 2 boys and she kissed the boy she was with and i then kissed the boy i was with and after we chatted about it and she just kept on going on and on about how great it was and when she shut up and asked me what i thought all i could say was his tongue felt like a slug lol

we were 15 at the time.
we were then talking about are first time having sex and weather it was what we had expected, i just remember thinking oh is that it then?lol
it that the big deal thing that my friends go on about?
well it wasnt what i had expected and as for my friend well she got more than she expected when she was holding a baby boy 9 months later.
she was 15 when she had her first time and i was 16.
i was wondering how old were you when you kissed for the first time and when you had sex for the first time and was it what you had expected?

Ponyup · 03-20-2007, 07:22 AM

My first kiss I believe I was 12. I was at camp & met a boy I liked. I was trying to ease my way into it & was gonna give him a kiss on the cheek, but he turned his head & it was a quick kiss on the lips, but the ones to follow were much better. I remember talking to my friends at camp & saying he keeps rubbing his tongue on my lips & they were like just open your mouth.

My first time was nice, but I wish it would've been with someone i was in love with, I was 19. It wasn't at all what I expected, but it was nice; however, soon after he turned into a giant jerk, but what do you do you can't take things back.

cindy0721 · 03-20-2007, 07:30 AM

Hmmm.. my first kiss I was 4..lol... I know ... it was my next door neighbor.... but truly truly I was in 6th grade.. Matthew Cruz.... we were together for 1 year.. all of 6th grade...lol... I laugh when I think about it.... he was a sweet guy... my first time I was 16..... it was with my first love and I would not trade that for the world... I am so happy it was with him.. I was his first too.... it was truly special....

Chandra Amaya · 03-20-2007, 08:23 AM

My first kiss was at age 9. It was the boy across from us. His name was Bobby Swanner. He was the cutiest blond haired, blue eyed thing in 4th grade lol. My mom rcently told me he is in Florida now married with a couple of kids & doing well. It was alittle odd. I think I was too nervous to know what to expect.

My first time having sex I was 14. It was my first love & we were supposed to be "engaged". We dated for 6 months then he left for Ohio right after I found out I was PG. My son is now 14 & driving me insane but I wouldn't change it because then I wouldn't have him. His father now has 3 or 4 kids & sees my son when he visits his Grandmother for a week in the summer. They have never been a big part in his life but atleast he does see them some. It was not at all what either of us expected. It was the first time for both of us. We expected just to "know" what to do but found out not so much true.

Janet · 03-21-2007, 04:56 AM

I honestly don't remember my first kiss. I think it was in Jr. high with my first REAL boyfriend. My 'other' first time was when I was 17 with my husband. It was really not what I expected. I remember when we got married (I was 19, he was 21) we 'did it' every night for the first 8 or 9 days and I was thinking, crap.....do married couples do it every night? I was beginning to get tired of it. Then things started getting normal if that's what you want to call it. I'm so glad he finally (must have) gotten as tired of it as I did.....LOL

Mandy · 03-21-2007, 05:29 AM

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

Janet · 03-21-2007, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

Mandy · 03-21-2007, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

janet, dont feel bad, i was so naive back than, before i learnt different i used to think people would be able to tell on my face, that ide break out in pimples or something.

Lindsey · 03-21-2007, 08:15 AM

First real kiss was on a dare, with the cutest boy I'd ever seen! It was on a camping trip with my friend's family and the guy was her cousin's friend. They dared us to kiss one night in the tent after the parents all went to sleep!
First time for sex was with a guy I thought I loved, and it just happened in the moment. I was 17 and saving myself for marriage, but we had been together for 2 years already and he promised he would marry me when we were done school. I bawled when it was over, and then I bawled even more a year later when he broke up with me and I found out he had been cheating on me for the whole 3 years we were together! So I really can't be sure that I was his first...

Marilyn · 03-21-2007, 07:55 PM

My first kiss was when I was around 16. The guy stuck his tongue in my mouth. I freaked out because I did not know people did that. Yuck!! I was so embarassed. I remember I had the shivers like I was cold but it was just nervousness. I told my best friend about it and she had quite a laugh & explained what a French kiss was. I felt so stupid like everyone knew so much more than I did.

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 08:36 AM

I was 14 at the time and met the boy who later turned into my first husband. He was 18 at the time. Well, I tagged along with him and my brother as they went to play raquetball. Inside the raquetball room the lights went out when the timer went off. It was dark and then smooch right on the lips. I remember my heart beating so fast I wanted to pass out.

I lost my virginity after watching the movie Endless Love at the theaters. We went and parked the car as we normally did to make out, LOL. Nothing like loosing your virginity in the back seat of a 69 Valiant. It had push button gears and was the oldest car Id ever seen in my life. I was still 14 at this time.

Well....later as with most anyone, unprotected sex leads to getting pregnant. I did at the age of 16 and married when I was 17. I have no regrets for that story in my life because I have my oldest son Brian whom I love very much. Abortion was NEVER an option for me.

Honestly I think the only thing I can remember about having sex for that first time is it kinda hurt.

It's been so many years now and I don't remember if it was what I had expected or not.

Chandra Amaya · 03-22-2007, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by rivermom

I lost my virginity after watching the movie Endless Love at the theaters. We went and parked the car as we normally did to make out, LOL. Nothing like loosing your virginity in the back seat of a 69 Valiant. It had push button gears and was the oldest car Id ever seen in my life. I was still 14 at this time.

awww atleast it was a wonderful movie & much better than the song I had playing ..."Comfortably numb" by Pink Floyd....not much of a romantic song lol

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Chandra Amaya

much better than the song I had playing ..."Comfortably numb" by Pink Floyd....not much of a romantic song lol

LOL -

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 10:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janet

Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what!

Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....

OMG visuals!!

rivermom · 03-22-2007, 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up!

My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it"

is THIS what they all bragging about

I didnt think it was cool at all!
It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something

That's hysterical Mandy!

I am trying to remember if I have ever laughed after a kiss or not??

03-19-2007, 04:24 PM	#1
sashajade Guest Posts: n/a	your first time i was talking to my friend today and we were talking about the first time we had kissed a boy we had met these 2 boys and she kissed the boy she was with and i then kissed the boy i was with and after we chatted about it and she just kept on going on and on about how great it was and when she shut up and asked me what i thought all i could say was his tongue felt like a slug lol we were 15 at the time. we were then talking about are first time having sex and weather it was what we had expected, i just remember thinking oh is that it then?lol it that the big deal thing that my friends go on about? well it wasnt what i had expected and as for my friend well she got more than she expected when she was holding a baby boy 9 months later. she was 15 when she had her first time and i was 16. i was wondering how old were you when you kissed for the first time and when you had sex for the first time and was it what you had expected?

03-20-2007, 07:30 AM	#3
cindy0721 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Lone Star State Posts: 389	Hmmm.. my first kiss I was 4..lol... I know ... it was my next door neighbor.... but truly truly I was in 6th grade.. Matthew Cruz.... we were together for 1 year.. all of 6th grade...lol... I laugh when I think about it.... he was a sweet guy... my first time I was 16..... it was with my first love and I would not trade that for the world... I am so happy it was with him.. I was his first too.... it was truly special.... __________________ Cindy " My mechanic told me, "I couldn't repair your brakes, so I made your horn louder."

03-20-2007, 08:23 AM	#4
Chandra Amaya 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Tn Posts: 1,646	My first kiss was at age 9. It was the boy across from us. His name was Bobby Swanner. He was the cutiest blond haired, blue eyed thing in 4th grade lol. My mom rcently told me he is in Florida now married with a couple of kids & doing well. It was alittle odd. I think I was too nervous to know what to expect. My first time having sex I was 14. It was my first love & we were supposed to be "engaged". We dated for 6 months then he left for Ohio right after I found out I was PG. My son is now 14 & driving me insane but I wouldn't change it because then I wouldn't have him. His father now has 3 or 4 kids & sees my son when he visits his Grandmother for a week in the summer. They have never been a big part in his life but atleast he does see them some. It was not at all what either of us expected. It was the first time for both of us. We expected just to "know" what to do but found out not so much true. __________________ Traci

03-21-2007, 04:56 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I honestly don't remember my first kiss. I think it was in Jr. high with my first REAL boyfriend. My 'other' first time was when I was 17 with my husband. It was really not what I expected. I remember when we got married (I was 19, he was 21) we 'did it' every night for the first 8 or 9 days and I was thinking, crap.....do married couples do it every night? I was beginning to get tired of it. Then things started getting normal if that's what you want to call it. I'm so glad he finally (must have) gotten as tired of it as I did.....LOL __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-21-2007, 05:29 AM	#6
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Janet, i laughed reading your post. I can just "hear" you say these things LOL... you crack me up! My first real kiss, i was 15 and remember thinking "this is it" is THIS what they all bragging about I didnt think it was cool at all! It was different when i met my husband, the first time we "did it" i was 17 or 18. i also remember laughing my head off!! Must have been nervs or something __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-20-2007, 07:22 AM	#2
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	My first kiss I believe I was 12. I was at camp & met a boy I liked. I was trying to ease my way into it & was gonna give him a kiss on the cheek, but he turned his head & it was a quick kiss on the lips, but the ones to follow were much better. I remember talking to my friends at camp & saying he keeps rubbing his tongue on my lips & they were like just open your mouth. My first time was nice, but I wish it would've been with someone i was in love with, I was 19. It wasn't at all what I expected, but it was nice; however, soon after he turned into a giant jerk, but what do you do you can't take things back.

03-21-2007, 08:15 AM	#9
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	First real kiss was on a dare, with the cutest boy I'd ever seen! It was on a camping trip with my friend's family and the guy was her cousin's friend. They dared us to kiss one night in the tent after the parents all went to sleep! First time for sex was with a guy I thought I loved, and it just happened in the moment. I was 17 and saving myself for marriage, but we had been together for 2 years already and he promised he would marry me when we were done school. I bawled when it was over, and then I bawled even more a year later when he broke up with me and I found out he had been cheating on me for the whole 3 years we were together! So I really can't be sure that I was his first... __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

03-21-2007, 07:55 PM	#10
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	My first kiss was when I was around 16. The guy stuck his tongue in my mouth. I freaked out because I did not know people did that. Yuck!! I was so embarassed. I remember I had the shivers like I was cold but it was just nervousness. I told my best friend about it and she had quite a laugh & explained what a French kiss was. I felt so stupid like everyone knew so much more than I did. __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

03-22-2007, 08:36 AM	#11
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	I was 14 at the time and met the boy who later turned into my first husband. He was 18 at the time. Well, I tagged along with him and my brother as they went to play raquetball. Inside the raquetball room the lights went out when the timer went off. It was dark and then smooch right on the lips. I remember my heart beating so fast I wanted to pass out. I lost my virginity after watching the movie Endless Love at the theaters. We went and parked the car as we normally did to make out, LOL. Nothing like loosing your virginity in the back seat of a 69 Valiant. It had push button gears and was the oldest car Id ever seen in my life. I was still 14 at this time. Well....later as with most anyone, unprotected sex leads to getting pregnant. I did at the age of 16 and married when I was 17. I have no regrets for that story in my life because I have my oldest son Brian whom I love very much. Abortion was NEVER an option for me. Honestly I think the only thing I can remember about having sex for that first time is it kinda hurt. It's been so many years now and I don't remember if it was what I had expected or not. __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

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