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Old 04-03-2007, 08:33 AM   #1
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The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee:

When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2
cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more
if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under
the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling
the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you
to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your
health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything
else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
your car.
The sand is everything else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the
jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf
balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on
the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important
to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your
happiness.
Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always
be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf
balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest
is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the
coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life
may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with
a friend."
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Old 04-03-2007, 12:32 PM   #2
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Oh, wow, this is REALLY good! Thanks for sharing!
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Old 04-03-2007, 01:08 PM   #3
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That's a great way to live life. Thanks for sharing Tink.
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Old 04-03-2007, 01:11 PM   #4
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That's a great way to live life. Thanks for sharing Tink.
I agree! Thanks Tink.
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Old 04-04-2007, 05:08 AM   #5
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I have seen this before & love it thanks Tink
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