new friend... or not - Page 4

Lissa · 04-09-2007, 03:13 PM

That's not high school, or at least I hope not because that's exactly what I would do. It's painful now, so to have the constant reminder hurts, especially if it seems like what's happened doesn't bother him. So removing him from your contact list isn't a bad decision at all.

Chandra Amaya · 04-09-2007, 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lissa

That's not high school, or at least I hope not because that's exactly what I would do. It's painful now, so to have the constant reminder hurts, especially if it seems like what's happened doesn't bother him. So removing him from your contact list isn't a bad decision at all.

I completely agree. I blocked my ex when we split up just because I didn't want to see his name.

AngieDoogles · 04-09-2007, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lissa

That's not high school, or at least I hope not because that's exactly what I would do. It's painful now, so to have the constant reminder hurts, especially if it seems like what's happened doesn't bother him. So removing him from your contact list isn't a bad decision at all.

I agree. I'd probably do the same thing. You don't need the extra pain Lindsey.

Lindsey · 04-09-2007, 06:45 PM

I feel better today. I didn't think about him as much. I talked to his friend today (we e-mail each other all day at work... I met him the same time I met Ryden) and he talked about Ryden a little... asked if I knew about their big party last week and why I didn't show up. I said I wasn't invited and I had other plans anyway. I don't want them to think it bothers me, because Ryden will find out. As far as any of them know, I cried over him for one day, and then I was over it! I still like those guys, and I still like hanging out with them. It's less weird for them I think if they don't know anything has changed with me, and I'm still the same girl they've always known. I don't want them to think I'm so upset over one stupid guy. Besides, why am I upset over one stupid guy?

Chandra Amaya · 04-10-2007, 04:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Besides, why am I upset over one stupid guy?

Very good

. You are getting there girl. One day at a time.

AngieDoogles · 04-10-2007, 06:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chandra Amaya

Very good

. You are getting there girl. One day at a time.

I agree! Way to go Lindsey!!!

Mandy · 04-10-2007, 10:13 AM

Ahhhhh there ya go!!! GOOD for you girl

Lindsey · 04-10-2007, 08:51 PM

Well, I think he found out that I deleted him on msn, so instead of making all his plans clear there, he posted on the sportbike forum that we're both part of about 5 times today about what his plans are for parties and that people should join him for a good time and stuff. And to bring this post back around again, I went for coffee with the girl tonight. She basically told me I'm way too cute for him anyway and really, who needs a guy? I got my learners license today for my bike, and she is taking me out tomorrow afer work. I came up with my new motto tonight... "Replacin' boys with toys!"

Chandra Amaya · 04-11-2007, 07:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lindsey

"Replacin' boys with toys!"

THat is great! I love it!

Mandy · 04-11-2007, 10:17 AM

ROFLMAO - replacin boys with toys

04-09-2007, 03:13 PM	#46
Lissa Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South and Central Texas Posts: 337	That's not high school, or at least I hope not because that's exactly what I would do. It's painful now, so to have the constant reminder hurts, especially if it seems like what's happened doesn't bother him. So removing him from your contact list isn't a bad decision at all. __________________ Marilyn's Disappearing Daughter!! Cake or Death, Melissa "Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised." Heb 10:35-36

04-09-2007, 06:45 PM	#49
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	I feel better today. I didn't think about him as much. I talked to his friend today (we e-mail each other all day at work... I met him the same time I met Ryden) and he talked about Ryden a little... asked if I knew about their big party last week and why I didn't show up. I said I wasn't invited and I had other plans anyway. I don't want them to think it bothers me, because Ryden will find out. As far as any of them know, I cried over him for one day, and then I was over it! I still like those guys, and I still like hanging out with them. It's less weird for them I think if they don't know anything has changed with me, and I'm still the same girl they've always known. I don't want them to think I'm so upset over one stupid guy. Besides, why am I upset over one stupid guy? __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

04-10-2007, 10:13 AM	#52
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Ahhhhh there ya go!!! GOOD for you girl __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

04-10-2007, 08:51 PM	#53
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Well, I think he found out that I deleted him on msn, so instead of making all his plans clear there, he posted on the sportbike forum that we're both part of about 5 times today about what his plans are for parties and that people should join him for a good time and stuff. And to bring this post back around again, I went for coffee with the girl tonight. She basically told me I'm way too cute for him anyway and really, who needs a guy? I got my learners license today for my bike, and she is taking me out tomorrow afer work. I came up with my new motto tonight... "Replacin' boys with toys!" __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

04-11-2007, 10:17 AM	#55
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	ROFLMAO - replacin boys with toys __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

	Contact Us - 4WomenTalk.com - Archive - Top
		Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7 Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.