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Old 09-13-2006, 09:37 AM   #16
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Oh I can't stand my brother's wife! She has totally changed him and we don't see them much at all. She is just the biggest bitch I've ever met!

My husband's sister is okay. She used to be worse. One year she sent a Christmas card to us but my name wasn't even on it! But in her defense she is a lot nicer now. I think she used to have this impression that I took her brother away from their family but I guess she realized it wasn't true.
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:40 AM   #17
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I think as time goes on and they realize we're not the enemy, then they (SIL) calm down a little. But a couple of mine just were not nice ever so they'll never change.
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:44 AM   #18
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I guess some people will never change, they are so set in their ways and beliefs, and that's ok too, they are who they are
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:46 AM   #19
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My SIL lives in Florida with my MIL and I totally LOVE her. She was in the army and is a vet of the first Gulf War. She is small and thin but she can kick a@@ if she needs to. She is a very strong, independent woman and totally my hero. She even gives me advice sometimes on how not to spoil her brother and make him pull his weight around the house.
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Old 09-13-2006, 11:35 AM   #20
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HOLY MOSES! That's a lot to keep up with!
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Old 09-13-2006, 12:03 PM   #21
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I get along with my 3 sister in laws good now, but not when my hubby and I first got together..they didnt like me, said it wont last etc and here we are 33 years later ha ha they have been through marrages and b/f's not us lol they dont bother me now lol
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Old 09-13-2006, 04:11 PM   #22
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Great one. Sounds like we have a sister in law in common.
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QUOTE=Janet]Okay Sherry Lynn, this thread is for you...Let's hear about the Sisters-in-law. I
have 6 and no two are alike in anyway!!!

My younger brother's wife is very evil. She is always asking questions (alot about kids) just so she can compare and make hers sound better. She will do awful things to someone just so she will look better. She's very controlling, so much so that when her father passed recently, her family told her to butt out, because she was trying to control everything including her mother. She even hit her sister in the belly while her sister was pregnant, because she wasn't married and they got into an arguement over it.

My older brother's wife is sweet, she just likes to exaggerate and boy is she good at it. She also tells half truths so you take what she says with a grain of salt. Al in all, not too bad.

Now on my husbands side:

Younger sister and husband make over $400,000 a year and makes sure everyone knows it. Even sending out copies of an article about her business to all the relatives. They are totally fake including their Christianity. They go for show, but practice none of it. Money is too important. Very stuffy and stand offish.

Older brothers wife is very nice. A little judgemental, but sincere in her actions and voice.

Step-sister-in-law: 53 years old and changes whatever her life is (no one knows anymore) because she changes with each guy she dates. So disappointing.

Half-sister-in-law: 40 years old---Totally nuts...spoiled, lies, cheats, steals, takes advantage of others and well, she'll never change..

Can anyone beat that? LOL[/QUOTE]
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Old 09-13-2006, 06:07 PM   #23
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I have 8 sister in laws 3 on my side and 5 on my hubby's.

My first 2 sister in laws are nice now but it took a long time for one of them and I to get a long. She won't stay at my house cause I have a yorkie and she doesn't like dogs.......If she does stay at my house she brings her own sheets and towels....can you gather she is a clean freak! My house isn't dirty. They both have the same name Phyllis. The other sister-in-law is nice but we hardly ever see them they keep to themselves.

My baby brothers wife is a bitch and won't let him see his family. They have 6 kids and I have never seen 3 of them! Their loss

On my hubby's side this gets good.

1st sister-in-law is the same age as me we went to school together.....it has been rocky between us but after 40 years of marriage her and I get along.....she lives in Texas and I live in Michigan!

2nd sister in law we get along very well now that our kids are all grown. She is a very sweet person

3rd,4th,5th sister in laws are filty and drugies who expect everyone to give them everything. They don't feel the need to work. Needless to say we don't have very much to do with them.
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Old 09-13-2006, 07:34 PM   #24
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I have one actual sister-in-law and haven't seen her in 3 years. She's nice, but complains a lot. After reading most of your posts, I think I'm pretty fortunate.
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Old 09-13-2006, 08:12 PM   #25
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I have three sil's.

My brother's wife is awesome. We are absolutely nothing alike, but she's very sweet and she's a wonderful mother. I really like spending time with her (the one or two times a year they're in town).

The only thing I'll say about my husband's sisters, is I'm sure THEY'D have some choice things to say about me if they were on here!
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Old 09-14-2006, 03:58 PM   #26
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Quote:
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[Janet,
Great one. Sounds like we have a sister in law in common.
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QUOTE=Janet]Okay Sherry Lynn, this thread is for you...Let's hear about the Sisters-in-law. I
have 6 and no two are alike in anyway!!!

My younger brother's wife is very evil. She is always asking questions (alot about kids) just so she can compare and make hers sound better. She will do awful things to someone just so she will look better. She's very controlling, so much so that when her father passed recently, her family told her to butt out, because she was trying to control everything including her mother. She even hit her sister in the belly while her sister was pregnant, because she wasn't married and they got into an arguement over it.

My older brother's wife is sweet, she just likes to exaggerate and boy is she good at it. She also tells half truths so you take what she says with a grain of salt. Al in all, not too bad.

Now on my husbands side:

Younger sister and husband make over $400,000 a year and makes sure everyone knows it. Even sending out copies of an article about her business to all the relatives. They are totally fake including their Christianity. They go for show, but practice none of it. Money is too important. Very stuffy and stand offish.

Older brothers wife is very nice. A little judgemental, but sincere in her actions and voice.

Step-sister-in-law: 53 years old and changes whatever her life is (no one knows anymore) because she changes with each guy she dates. So disappointing.

Half-sister-in-law: 40 years old---Totally nuts...spoiled, lies, cheats, steals, takes advantage of others and well, she'll never change..

Can anyone beat that? LOL
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LOLOL I didn't realize that was you until just now!!!!! On the other thread when I saw our initials. Glad you're here...I love it and don't get much else done.
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