Whats your Hubby's/Significant Other's 3 Best Qualities?

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Janet

WOW, how wonderful for you. I wish I could go back in time and do things differenty, then maybe I could list at least half of what you did. I am truly envious.

Awww Janet. I am sure many of us wish we could go back and change certain things. I sure know I would too about some things.

[Janet]

Originally Posted by cindy0721

dont feel bad... My husband was abandoned by his maternal mother and raised by his grandma ... he is not a affectionate man nor does he express his feelings very well unless he is mad.... hes a pro.. BUT through the years I have managed to earn his trust and lil by lil we are getting there... I hope.... remember that saying" God Makes , God Joins them.. God Keeps them together.... well thats us...lol

My hubby doesn't communicate well at all about anything. It is so strange, but when they lost his mother, his dad took it very hard and they were told not to upset daddy. Everytime I've ever asked if something was wrong, he always said "nothing". After a while I just quit asking. If he doesn't want to share and maybe let me help him, then he can deal with it on his own. Very disturbing.

[Amber_lv]

he does anything i ask and he gives me breaks from the kids and he lets me sleep in

[RLC12345678]

1. Extremely intelligent...he is seriously the smartest person I've ever met. I feel like I get smarter everytime I have a conversation with him.

2. He is a traditional man...he takes great care of me...Despite his 80 hour a week work schedule, I am his #1 priority (after God of course).

3. I know he will be a fantastic father just by seeing how he loves and cares for our furbabies

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Tink

90% of the time he lets me just make my own decisions and do my own thing without needing to try to control me or interfere. Whether that means changing jobs, taking classes, redecorating our home, or whatever.

AND this one too!

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by cindy0721

Hubby too... he never asks or calls to double check on me ever... I have friends who can't cut their hair or go anywhere with out permission.. thank god I didn't get one of those... I would be divorced....

Ditto, Cindy!!!!!!! Whenever hubby attempts to tell me what to do, I tell him that I am a grown woman with a job and if I wanted someone to tell me what to do, I will still be living with my parents!

Does anyone watch SouthPark?? Have you seen the episode when Cartman goes on the Maury show pretending to be a delinquent teen? He repeats the phrase, "I do what I want!!" Well, when hubby tries to tell me what to do, I say in my "Cartman" voice, "I DO WHAT I WANT!" Hubby laughs everytime!

[ginab]

awww, im so glad you all have great husbands,, how nice!!

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by ginab

awww, im so glad you all have great husbands,, how nice!!

Gina, you have a TERRIFIC bf, tell us about him!

[ginab]

ok then,,
ummmmm

he's nice, generous, does what ever i want him to do. marriage material, but
im chicken s***... ummm just totally infactuated with me and i dont know why..
i know im frigging nuts, i should jump on that huh??? very jealous though..
is kinda old fashion ... just totally trust worthy... hes just all around the perfect
boyfriend, im the one thats the sicko

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by ginab

ok then,,
ummmmm

he's nice, generous, does what ever i want him to do. marriage material, but
im chicken s***... ummm just totally infactuated with me and i dont know why..
i know im frigging nuts, i should jump on that huh??? very jealous though..
is kinda old fashion ... just totally trust worthy... hes just all around the perfect
boyfriend, im the one thats the sicko

So, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING ON, girl?! Just kidding. It is a big step to get married. Why fix something that's not broken?!

[ginab]

i have already been married and went down that road and just scared to death.
i have everything i need now.. i own my own house, bought my x out. i have a
good job , great family and i have lexi, what more do i need???
dont want to share what i have and what i worked so so hard for... not that i will
ever give up my home, but just scared .. not sure what i want anymore and he knows is and i feel bad... im just comfortable too.... and mind you after my divorce i lived with another man for 2 years and didnt go well at all sooooooooooooo.
ya see what i mean

[Janet]

Sounds like you know what you're doing. Why rush....? and like mentioned before, why fix it if it aint broken!!!

1. Always makes me smile, no matter how bad I may not want to
2. He always finds a way to touch me, wether it's holding my hand, rubbing my shoulders, (smacking my butt lol). It makes me feel good that he always wants to be close to me
3. He LOVES to cuddle!
4. He makes me feel secure
5. I can trust him with anything and everything!
6. He hugs, kisses me and tells me he loves me anytime we leave the house

We have been together for 11 years now (I'm 25 you do the math lol) We are high school sweethearts! He is my best friend, and I still to this day get excited when I get to go home after work and see him! I think we have something special!

Tammy

[Sherry Lynn]

1. Quick wit/sense of humor are first and foremost! I just can't get mad at him. When I start to get BI-itchy he just makes me laugh.

2. Kind/generous/thoughtful/affectionate

3. Intelligent/hardworking/ethical/excellent communicator

I could go on and on and on.....

Tomorrow is our 15th wedding anniversary (we've lived together for 20 years) and I can't imagine life without him. He's the best friend I've ever had... and again, he's easy on the eye!

[Kimberley]

Oh, geez! You want me to list my redneck husband's best qualities??? YEAH, RIGHT!

Actually,

1) He makes me laugh.

2) He listens to me when I cry and holds me.

3) He doesn't argue back very often which makes me pretty happy!