What would you do?

[DianaB]

I am soooooo aggravated at my brother!!! Remember I only have the ONE brother. He's on drugs but hides it from my Mom......borrows money or has money given to him from our Mom.........has a girlfriend that is on drugs but keeps telling us that he's done with her. I could go on and on.


What happened is this........He came to church on Sunday. There was a young woman who went to the front for prayer........and I went up to pray with her.......after church my brother comes up and starts asking me all kinds of questions about her (She's probably in her 20's.....my brother is 50.) He even tells me how pretty she is. Then during lunch (and I didn't hear it) he talks about some Philippino girls that come to church and how beautiful they are. It's not so much WHAT he said as to how he said it. He has a girlfriend and always seems to be looking for the next one. It's disgusting!!

I guess that my Mom told him that he shouldn't say that and he let her know that he can talk about beautiful girls and that there is nothing wrong with that. Glen was really upset at how he talked to my Mom. Personally I think that he's a prevert and I'm tired of having him around.

Glen came home yesterday and he's going to have a talk with my Mom and let her know (without hurting her feelings) that my brother is no longer welcome here. We have beautiful granddaughters that we're not willing to have in the same room with him. We know that they've all been warned to stay away from him because we're all concerned about molestation. Then Glen's going to let my brother know that he's not welcome. If Glen doesn't do it than I'm going to do it and I'm not as good of a communicator asGlen is!!

What do you think about our deciision? I'm so tired of dealing with my brother. My Mom believes all of his lies but I .....nor my family......or my brother's family believe any of them. I won't have him watching my granddaughters with dirty thoughts going through his mind.