Relying on your Husband/partner financially

[Taurus Babe]

I am more of the "independent type"and I guess that's just the way I was brought up...The way I think is I just need to be able to support myself no matter what arises (and you never know what could arise!) But my question is, what are the pros and cons of being in a relationship where there is one bread winner? How does it work, and how does it affect your relationship and self-esteem?

One day, I would like to be a stay at home mother, but I want a degree and experience under my belt just so I know I can hold my own. I hate asking for money from my parents (who make it clear that it's okay for them to give me money while I'm in school), or even just borrowing money from my friends. Money just makes me nervous and tense How have you ladies delt with this? Ever had the opportuny and not taken it? Why? I know there are some stay at home moms out there, so if you would like to enlighten me, please!

I am in a situation where I don't need to work and I would be fully supported by my bf when I move out there with him, but I most likely will end up working for Visa purposes (but that's another story).