What a jerk!!!!!!!

[Cribal]

Originally Posted by Ponyup

I'd give it time. The one year anniversary thing would of really pissed me off because it was a broken promise he made plans & then cancelled, bad move. However, his bowling & hunting are probably habits he's had forever & are hard to change. The first year of marriage is really tough & the 2nd isn't a whole lot better. I would just continue to be honest with him about how you feel. Make sure you don't place blame. It will take him a while to learn to take your feeling into account when he makes plans. There is an adjustment period. It's not that he doesn't love you or what to spend time with you it's just that he's used to a certain routine & things like that take time to change.

Yea I don't think it's that he doesn't love me or anything but I just don't like living like this. I don't feel like I come first in anything in his life. His hunting or fishing or golfing or bowling or football or all of that s*** always comes b4 my feelings. By no means have I said that he couldn't do any of these things, all I ask is that he limit it a little so that we have time together but no matter how much I ask he just doesn't seem to care..... It would be different if he were like this when we were dating or engaged but he was ALL about me and doing things with me b4 we got married. I kinda feel like he knows he has me so he doesn't have to work at anything or spend any time with me anymore. I don't know if it pisses me off more or it it hurts my feelings more.