12-06-2008, 10:01 AM | #16 | |
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Location: Denver, NY
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I also asked him to leave and it broke my heart to do that to him. My first ex left me and it was just easier. It wasn't easy, just easier. I lost a lot of friends like you Val and Brenda. I felt that some of the females who I thought were my friends did not want their husbands near me. I was that lonely, vulnerable, divorced woman who would (in their minds) go with anyone out of desperation. Yeah, like that would ever happen! Although, quite a few of the husbands in our group did come to visit me without their wives along. Some men are pigs. You do find out the true nature of people at a time like that. I do, however, find that most of my married friends are in very good marriages now. I think you have something there Diana. I don't think it really pertains to divorce only, but if you surround yourself with positive people, you will also be a positive person and vice versa.
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