Mother-in-laws??

[Amber_lv]

Ok ladies i have a serious topic here! I hate my mother in law she is a totally beast i have tried for six years to make her like me and it just isn't going to happen she used to call me at all hours of the night crying to me about how her husband cheated on her and she went into very graphic details i would sit and listen and try to comfort her and then i come to find out all the time she had been badmouthing me to my husband and all her family behind my back! She told her family that i trapped my husband and all i wanted him for was his money! I was like what money? he has money ?where? But she has always gone out of her way to make me feel uncomfortable around her yet she says she doesn't have a problem with me? I am so frustrated we used to let our 3 yr old son go stay the weekend with them but she got remarried to an alcoholic and she would let him take my son out riding horses while he was sh*t faced and let my 3 yr old ride alone then when i confronted them they made me be the bad guy so after that when he was out there they told him your mom is not the boss when you are here and they would do it anyway and tell him not to tell me. He always came home and was so upset he would cry and then he would tell me because he didn't want to lie to me. So he no longer goes out there. The sad thing is she never calls on their b-days or any holiday ever i had a new baby in May of 2005 and he is 16 months old she has only seen him and my 6 yr old 2 times since he was born how sad is that? She makes it out to be my fault yet she can't knock on my door to tell them happy birthday she will leave an outfit on the door in the morning so she doesn't have to see anyone and then she calls my husbands cell phone and crys to him about it. I am so fed up i don't even care anymore and his sister is the same way. So i was wondering how are all your relationships with you mother-in laws?