I'm Upset

I just got into it with my fourteen year old daughter. I tend to over react to things but she told me she wanted to go live with her dad! That really hurt my feelings but now I feel like pushing her away and having her go live with her DAD.

I have raised her alone since she was 7. Her dad lives in Washington State and they talk on the phone alot and he does come and visit, but he has not been here for school stuff or dr appts or any other things like that. I guess she thinks that the grass is greener on the other side. That her dad will not discipline her for things that she does wrong.

I'm not sure how her dad feels about this but I am upset and angry. I don't want to allow her to munipulate me with that treat everytime that she does not like something I do. I tend to be hard with discipline but the things that I was upset about I have asked her over and over not to do...and she continues to do them.

A part of me feels like maybe she should go live with her dad. But that means I would not see her because he lives on the other side of the united states.

Needed to vent...