I'm Ticked

[Ponyup]

We went for a walk & talked last night, I truely believe he is innocent in all this, but I explained how it looked & how it made me feel & he understands. He brought up the fact that her husband & I talk on IM during the day. I explained that that was different because her husband & I have been friends since highschool & usually we just talk to make plans for the weekend. Sometimes he tries to turn it sexual (just because he's a guy) & I nip it in the bud. I guess I just got worried because I've been in relationship before that weren't going good & I met this a guy that was so nice & listened to me & one thing let to another. I'm just afraid they might get into a bad situation. My husband is very naive in the relationship world. He never had a relationship before me & I know he thinks he's just being her friend, which is nice, but if she unhappy in her relationship & then they become close, etc.. As of right now I think we can still be friends with them as a couple. I wouldn't hang out with her husband alone & I made it quite clear he is not to have contact with her that I don't know about. So hopefully this will all go away.

I think the reason I'm jealous is because I used to be a cheater. I've never cheated on my husband & I won't, but i've been there. In a Bad relationship, meet a nice guy that will listen, & it leads to something else. I trust my husband would never come on to her, but I don't know what he'd do if she came onto him. Honestly in my heart I believe he would stop it & leave. I actually just realized that I truely believe that, he knows that would hurt me & he hates to hurt me. I guess I really got upset over nothing.