Never dating agan!

[Lindsey]

Hey everyone, I haven't really been active here in the past couple of weeks. Once again I'm a little angry with the whole male population so I'm going to vent! A couple weeks ago I met this really nice guy. We were at a bar and he was friends with a girlfriend of mine and we hit it off. I gave him my number and he called every day until we hung out at his place one night for movies. We talked and kissed and hugged and I thought I found myself a really nice guy. He's the first guy I've had any feelings for since my ex. He said he'd call after that, but he didn't. After a few days I called him and he said he can't hang out right now because he's cramming for finals, so that was okay with me.
This past week I called him and he said we'd hang out the next day. So on Wednesday night I went out with some girls and he and his friend met up with us. I left with them to see some of their friends and we were going to meet the girls back at another bar in an hour. When we got back there, they were just leaving. We ended up going to ANOTHER bar where they ran into two girls they knew, so I hung out with them and they were really nice girls, until one of them kept telling me that everytime I left the table, he started rubbing her leg. A couple guys I knew from before were also there and I asked them about him and they basically said they've seen him out and he's a player and i should be careful. But, I liked him, and he denied everything. He wouldn't drive me back to my car so I stayed at his house, and he was going to drive me in the morning. His alarm didn't go off in the morning and I missed work.... I also woke up with no clothes on. I am not THAT kind of girl at all. I felt sick.
Anyways, since then he hadn't called or answered my calls. Since the first night we met he wanted me to go to his rugby team's toga party last night, and i had some girls to go with so I showed up and he wasn't there. His best friend told me he just left to get cigars and he'd be right back. So when my girls left, I decided I'd wait for him at the party where I knew NOBODY. After about an hour I was in the hot tub and talking to some new people and I said I knew Chris and John, but I didn't know where Chris went, and John hadn't been there since I got there. One guy was like "Yeah John left with his girlfriend a long time ago, they've got something to do early tomorrow" I was shocked. Yeah, he does have a girlfriend. I talked to his best friend who also denied it and said "yeah if the girlfriend is you"
I walked to my friend's house in the area to sleep on his couch. John texted me all night telling me to come out and meet him and i was like "Do you have a girlfriend?" and he said "I love lamp" (stupid thing from a movie) so then i didn't reply and he said "are you coming?" and i said "Hmmm are you still a jerk or are you single now?" and he was like "why do you ask?" and i said i'm not a fan of cheaters... he just changed the subject again. I finally said "have a nice life" and went to sleep.
Why do guys have to be like this? Have I not had my heart broken enough already?