this is getting out of control!!!

[toodles]

so, my 2 best friends have their birthdays a day apart. we celebrated on tuesday night (one of them was tuesday and one was wednesday) but my hubby could not be at the party. so he asked if we could have another one on Friday (today) so that he could celebrate too. so we did.

so...here we are...me and my 2 friends...and my hubby is in the spare bedroom on the computer the WHOLE time. I keep going in and asking if he is planning on joining us...he says yes. He comes out and eats and then goes back in. I ask if he would like cake...he says yes. but he just stays back there. STAYS BACK THERE THE WHOLE TIME. it is insane. every time something reminds him of my tattoo, he acts like this. I have gone back there several times to try and talk to him and he just doesn't talk. he kinda responds with a "yeah" or "no" or "i'm fine". I even asked him if he would like me to ask them to leave. he said "no."

well...i have tried to talk to him...tried over and over again this evening. and he is just being pissy. I'M OVER IT!!! I cant believe he is acting so childish.

so of course...he doesn't want to come out and join us now because he is embarrassed and feels like a total @$$...which he should...

so he walks through the living room where we are watching a movie and gets a bite of cake and goes back to our bedroom. he is in bed now.

doesn't say good night. NOTHING. this is just insane. I didn't act this way when he went to a strip club and left his wedding ring on the nightstand!!! I mean...I called him and made him come and get it and put it on...but I certainly didn't stop talking to him and act all pissy. I am sorry, but I would think that would warrant a silent treatment if anything did. but I didn't play that game with him. I dont ever play that game. but here we are...I have the tattoo and he is acting out.

during the day, we laugh, cut up, have a GREAT time together. he is very affectionate and acts like the world is all sugar coated. but we get home and he starts acting like this. and in front of my friends!! when HE is the one that wanted to have them over!!!

I am not saying that I am perfect in all of this...because I am fully aware that I am not perfect in this relationship. but this is just getting to be too much!!

sorry...not really looking for advice, just needing to vent. I am pretty upset right now. I really don't know how much more of this I can take. I really don't. It is just so hard. I would rather just call it quits most days. I don't know what to do anymore...