Kissing issues

[toodles]

I'm really in the same boat as you. I don't like to kiss my husband. I am NOT a sexual person with him...but I love him. and that has been proven through some very rough times. Most of those rough times were created because of my lack of physical interest. He doesnt' understand it...and there just doesn't seem to be any way to change it. It is just how I am.

I am physical with him because I know it makes him happy. We aren't intimate as much as he would like (that would be impossible LOL) and I never REALLY kiss him. We just "peck". He would like me to really "all out" kiss him...but I just don't want to.

I honestly think that part of why I am not "into" it is because of my being chlostophobic. I don't like things in or near my face. so kissing is out. sexually, I am physically very hard to please so there is just no real point in me having sex. the only reason I do it is for him.

i wish you luck. I know it's hard,....I am very familiar with that.

hopefully it will either get better for you, or you will learn to live without the kissing...as I have done.