Ok How would you handle THIS????

[Brooke]

(DEEP BREATH!)

I have to give some back ground so you understand the situation...
Some of you may know my husbabd and I have had a VERY BAD YEAR. Close to divorce, fighting, my home has been a war zone for over a year now. We are Christians and trying everything we know to work it out because we know God hates divorce and it would be best if we can work it out... This week things are better a little bit... Prayer would be great if you pray... Thanks.

My sister in Law is terminlly ill, she has a very bad heart, kidney failuar, and is diabetic She is 300 pounds and they can't operate because they are afraid she will die on the table.

She calls on Sat and tell my husband she is coming up to visit...She is on her way! (Mind you she has hospis coming every day to take care of her... She is on oxagen, And the drive is about 6-7 hours!!!) I never thought she would make it but she shows up, with out the oxagen, no wheel chair, but her self and lots of pills...She is on tons of meds)

Since she has gotten here she every so often will try to talk about how my husband and I are doing.. She talks like we are getting a divorce. She says things like, you can live alone don't worry, don't plan on any money you won't get anything, if my brother isn't happy there is no sense in being together! I keep telling her we are working it out... she acts like she doesn't hear me!

Well last night I talk to my 23 year old son who is upset. It turns out she has told him it is inevitable that we are getting divorced and to face it. She went on and on about it to him and he got really mad at her. HE wants her out of my house!

I am so mad I can't see straight. How dare she!!! Here I am waiting on her left and right because she can't breath well at all...(WAlking across my kitchen is a huge effort for her that gets her completely out of breath!) And behind my back she goes and has this TALK with my son. SHe calls my daughter at college ALL THE TIME and who knows WHAT she says to her!!!!

I talked to my husband and he says he never told her he was leaving me, that things were bad but they were getting better... So she came up with this crap on her own. (It is just like her to do this... she is a huge trouble maker and her own kids won't even talk to her at all now.)

Just wondered what you all would do. She is dieing, I don't want to upset her but gee wizz who wants to deal with this crap. Now I have to take her out to lunch and try to be nice! If she wasn't so sick I would be getting the gloves on, but she is very sick and I am wondering how the heck we are gonna get her outta here and back to her place!!!

Help some one save me!!!