Stressed

[2tiredmom]

I'm so stressed right now it's not funny. My dad called me at 5 am on Sunday morning wanting to know where my mom was. (She died 2 years ago.)
He woke up and she wasn't there. This is not the first time he has done this.
So i had to explain it all to him. I couldn't get back to sleep. Then about noon I called him and he didn't remember calling me. He lives alone right now. He may be coming up here to stay. Don't get me wrong but he is a big baby. He just want's someone to wait on him. He will not make his own decisions. He want's
my brother and I to make them for him.
My dad lives on an acre and a half. My brother wants the property. He lives less than 5 minutes away. I live 2 1/2 hours away. My dad has ran out of money so now he will have to come and live with us. I've told my brother that we need to sell the place and he say's no. He is such a brat. He was the baby of the family and got just about anything he wanted. Sorry to go on. But I'm at a loss.
My oldest daughter is getting married this summer and she lives 2 1/2 hours away from me. Here I thought I was seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
Wrong it's a train. I know I need to step up and take care of my dad. But he is able to do things for himself but won't. My husband has been a rock for me though all this. But I'm afraid if my dad comes to live with us it will put a gap between us. Thanks so much for reading. It seems like the only time i get on here is when i have a problem. But i know you girls don't really know me except for Janet and she's a peach. That's where i'm at right now. Thanks again.