What a jerk!!!!!!!

[Cribal]

Please tell me if I'm over-reacting but I think my husband is being a complete a-hole (excuse my french but I'm really pissed off right now).

Last winter hubby was gone every Wed. and Thurs. to bowl on his thursday night league and he substituted on Weednesdays. Well he would be gone until midnight and then on fidays and sat.s he would be gone all day hunting so I felt like I would never see him and it put a real strain on the first few months of our marriage.

Well winter league bowling is starting up and we made an agreement that we would only substitute for a team ONCE a month. I didn't want to make the agreement b/c I knew he wouldn't keep his word but he said he PROMISED he would only bowl once a month and he wouldn't ask or beg to bowl any more than that.

Well, he bowled the first Wed. of this month(6th.) and he just came in from work and asked if I wanted to come and watch him bowl tonight. I said no b/c you have already subbed for someone this month. And he was like well he begged me so I couldn't say no.... Why can he not hurt his friends feeling but he can hurt mine by breaking a promise he made me. We even talked and I said do you remember promising me that and he said yes but he doesn't understand why I'm so mad about it. WTF... Sorry I just had to vent and I'm soooo freaking pissed right now.