SIL problems AGAIN!!

[Janet]

First let me give you some background: My husband as a half-sister and she is the baby of the family. Their family was a "his", "hers", and "ours." She's always had problems but most everyone thought it was because her mom and dad spoiled her. She didn't do well in school and got upset when the school wanted them to have her tested. She failed every subject from grade school on up. This is no exaggeration. She pregnant at 16, had a beautiful little girl. Had two boys and now they are divorced, he remarried and living in Texas. Well, whenever there was a problem mommy and daddy bailed her out, mostly financial. Okay, more up to date........FIL passed away and we found out they were over $80,000 in credit card debt. Mostly because of this daughter.

She just turned 41 on the 20th of this month but has the mentality of a screwed up 20 something. She had racked up over $30,000 herself. They helped her get a car (in both names) and she has yet to get his name off of the car. She ended up renting an apartment and leaving without paying the rent. They took her to court. In all of this she did get a settlement from her father's estate. Now the tow truck is driving all around town trying to find her car so they can reposess it. She over 4 months behind. She took her mom from the nursing home to the flower shop that has been sold and pretty much dismantled and caused her mom to lose it for awhile. Then started begging her for money for her car payment.

Last night we had to go get the business van and hide it because we had word that she was going to start driving that. I am just so sick of having to deal with this nimrod I can't stand it. She's asked everyone in the family to co-sign for her to get another car...no one will. She's driving the family nuts...what are we to do. We can't move...... I want her to go away and never return.

Just needed to vent!!!! She's nuts!!!!!!!!!