Should he get married?

[Janet]

I don't think it's right either, but I have a relative who is gay. Quite a Christian man, very active in his church. He is a good Christian man. When I look at him and see/know what a wonderful person he is, I'm sad that he can't have the same thing legally and religiously.

But from my understanding, that's what the Bible says...Marilyn!! Diana!! I'm sure you know more about this in the scriptures.

I know he wouldn't have chosen this lifestyle. If there can be birth defects of many kinds..why can't this be considered one also. I do believe with my whole heart that not ALL homosexuals want this lifestyle, but if the feelings just aren't there for the opposite sex, what are they to do. It's not fair that they can't have a loving relationship and that it be blessed.