I'm deeply hurt......

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by Janet

Sounds like everyone is agreeing 100% on this Diana. It will probably be sad at her funeral. When people are allowed to say something like at your FIL....no one will want to say anything for her. What a big difference.

It was like that with my in-laws too. When my FIL passed...there were so many people, but he knew a lot, from the floral buisness. But when my MIL passed...there was mostly just family. Since it was a mixed family...I felt sorry for my MIL kids....(FIL stepkids)

Actually, when I go to town I have people all the time asking how my MIL is and telling me how wonderful she is. I just let them think that I agree with them and go on. Being in her family is different than being a friend.

Things are stirred up so we'll see what happens. There's some things that really need to be discussed.

My FIL always had a saying that went something like this.....

"If we were to take all of our troubles and pack them in a bag and place them in the middle of a room and everyone had to pick up a bag. I'd pick up mine and you'd pick up yours." Our troubles really don't seem so bad when we look at what someone else is going through.

Thanks so much for your support. I so appreciate each of you!!! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}