I could use some advice.

[Janet]

Dobie, they already know how you feel, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. I would attend the baptism and then maybe go for a bite to eat (depending on time of day) and then go to their home after the naming ceremony. I would still take a lovely gift.

You wrote you don't know why it makes you feel uncomfortable, it could be a number of things, but I believe you're being spoken to. The problem with most of us is we don't listen.

Don't know if this is any good advice, but I know you'll do what you can feel comfortable with.