Horrible day..

[Shada]

Horrible day...

My sister called me to yell at me because I 'talked' my mom into getting a yorkie, which I did not. She told me I better take that dog because she will not take care of it, this from a 55 year old woman who has never taken care of herself or her kids..my mom has always taken care of her and her kids. We had a huge loud screaming match at each other..

HER WORDS:
Her and her kids do so much for my mom, I am never there, all I do is smoke and drink, I am a alcoholic, I do nothing for mom, I have this huge social life and never have anything to do with my family, I am the favorite, mom does for me all the time, mom gave me her car, mom gave me a antique tiffany lamp and table, mom never does anything for her, all her life she has taken care of her kids without any help.. she works all the time, her son mows mom's yard, her and her daughter take care of mom.

Now the truth:
She, her daughter and her daughters 2 kids eat at moms 5-7 days a week. My mom either cooks for all of them or calls for take-out. Her son (who mows the yard) lives with mom because his own mother (my sister) will not allow him to stay with her. My mother feeds him every night. Plus she hides all her jewelry, her purse, because he can't be trusted. In the past he has stolen from her bank account, (got her ATM number and also stole checks from her that he signed her name, made out to his name with 'gift' written on check). My sister raised her 3 kids on welfare. Never worked until the youngest was 18. All those years, my mother every day, would stop over at my sister's with food and milk. My mom had my sister's kids all the time.
Now sister works. Part time. Home care. Cleans houses and cooks for people. Wow. She has no idea what a real job is. Works maybe 20 hours a week. She has a drug addict boyfriend who has spent more time in his life in prison than on the streets.
My mom has paid my sisters daughter way forever.. Julie goes shopping, she takes moms credit card. Julie has 2 kids that she has never bought similac or diapers for.. mom did it all.. mom buys most of their clothes..yes Julie works, part time like her mom. They both get assistance from the state. Live in goverment housing. Food stamps and a medical card. If you were to look at them, you would think they were both successful in their lifes, always wearing the best clothes, buy a new car every 2 years, look upper class.. so far from the truth. Mom pays Julies car insurance since she first got a car at 16 years. She is now 32 years old.
It makes me sick and furious to know they take and take from mom..

I work full time. Have never had assistance. Never take a dime from mom. I take care of myself without any help from mom. I bought my moms car that I drive. I did not take it as a gift. In the past 20 years I have had 2 cars. Bought and paid for by me. Yes I did accept a lamp and table from her.. she gave it to me because she knew I would treasure it and love it as she did. Everything you give to my sister she gives away. I have given her so much over the years.. along with my mother. She cares for nothing. Like mom says, 'easy come, easy go'.

I stop at my moms every couple of days. Speak to her every night. Let her vent on me for what they are putting her thru. She feels they are all just waiting for her to die so they can cash in. They think her house is theirs.

I told my sister you have given nothing to mom but heartache and tears, I give her support and love.. yet I am the badass.

Then I get off the phone with her and my Keller boy (old buddy dog) has a bad seizure.

Been a bad day.