The second meeting

[DianaB]

Wow, and I thought that my MIL was bad before we got married!!! This woman takes the cake. She is just RUDE. Personally, I wouldn't go back. If Scott wants to visit his Mom then maybe he needs to just go by himself. If she wants to know why you aren't there then he can explain it to her.

It sounds like you did a good job of keeping your cool with her and was nice to her in spite of her being rude. You don't have to subject yourself to that.

Or maybe you need to have a talk with her and explain that either you can fight over your time with Scott and make him choose between the two of you OR you can both get along and everyone enjoy being together with Scott. I wish you a LOT of good luck with this one!!!!