How long have you been married?

[Ponyup]

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

So, here's a question for all you married ladies....is it true what they say, that the first year is the hardest? Or would you disagree? What are your secrets for a healthy relationship?

Definitely the hardest, but we didn't live together before getting married. In fact until we were married we were long distance & only saw each other on the weekends. We are both loners so living with someone was a system shock for both of us. At about 18 months we hit our stride & it's been pretty good sense.
My best advise is always take your spouses side when it is them against an outside person or thing. The two of you are a team & need to be a united front.