How forgiving are you?

[Ponyup]

A one time mistake is one thing, it would be hard to get over & it would put a strain, but I would probably try to work through it. An affair is a completely different thing. It's not just sex usually there is emotion involved in an affair & lots of lying. I would have to say an affair would mean the end.

[rivermom]

I don't ever have to question my husband and I am very thankful for that part of peace that remains within my heart.

Him and I have been married before and both of us cheated with our spouses for various reasons. We've been down that road so with the marriage we have now we both have such an understanding as to what all is involved physically and emotionally playing that "cheating game". It takes its toll and it's never a positive experience.

I don't agree with the slogan "once a cheater always a cheater" as I am living proof it doesn't hold up.

I can't really imagine having to forgive my husband for cheating because I haven't had to even place that thought in my mind. So, this is a question I am unable to answer.