Sexist pig

[Ponyup]

I would watch out for yourself if I were you, so of the things he's doing are more then just boys being boys kind of behavior. The things he is saying in "jest" are things of a very serious nature & should be taken seriously. I would begin filing a complaint with the dean any time you witness him behaving in these types of way, that way their is some tracing of these occurances, it may not do any good, but what could it hurt. Also have other people do the same.

[Lindsey]

There have been many complaints about him already. Nobody takes it seriously because I guess nobody wants to deal with it. And I think everyone's a little scared of him. Last semester he was so upset that he didn't understand an assignment he turned around and punched a hole right through the wall! Then stomped out of class like a kid. Nobody knows how to deal with him, so he gets away with everything.
Well, I'm gone for the weekend now. Hopefully a weekend with my boyfriend will calm me down enough to get through another week of being less than a person.

[Ponyup]

Maybe people should start filing complaints with the police then. To be charged with assault a person doesn't actually have to touch you, if you feel threatened you can charge them with assault.

[Janet]

Sorry, I don't have any answer for this one....just be careful!

[Gina]

Lindsey.. I think you should cut all ties with this guy.. Stay away from him , he sounds like big trouble. Actually a nut job.From what you said he does have serious issues and he probably does not have any self esteem. This is a college guy that we are talking about right ?, he sounds very immature. I cannot believe that your teachers let him get away with this behavoir... By what you said he probably likes you big time and can't handle the rejection, I am not a phycologist but boy he has issues with women, big time!!.. As Pony said report it to the police , if your school is not doing anything about it. Just ignore him in class and let his gossip be just that gossip. In the future use better judgement who to confide in , it is going to be hard but as time goes along and he sees that he doesn't get the best of you, he probably will leave you alone.. Be careful hon , he is not normal.

[Lindsey]

I'm back now and a little more calm. I've decided I'm going to just let it slide for 6 weeks. Any job he takes after graduation won't last long, I know that. Last year we both worked for the same company, but in different cities. One night after work he PUNCHED the engineer he was working with in the face. He wasn't offered a job this year with them, and they MADE a job for me to go back.
I'm just happy I won't have to deal with him anymore.... but I kind of wish I would have done something about it earlier.

[Ponyup]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

I'm back now and a little more calm. I've decided I'm going to just let it slide for 6 weeks. Any job he takes after graduation won't last long, I know that. Last year we both worked for the same company, but in different cities. One night after work he PUNCHED the engineer he was working with in the face. He wasn't offered a job this year with them, and they MADE a job for me to go back.
I'm just happy I won't have to deal with him anymore.... but I kind of wish I would have done something about it earlier.

Did the person he punched in the face file charges? They should have. This guy needs to get in trouble big time. He is too old to behave like this & in my personal opinion needs mental help. These are the kind of guys that rape & beat women, stay far far away from him.